What causes an affair?

[Narelle45]

What do you think causes this? DH and I are going through a bad patch at the moment and this keeps crossing my mind?

He is very successful, I can imagine the younger, more attractive girls in the office being really flirty with him and obviously with the relationship as it is, what if he is tempted?

What clues did you have that your DH was ha

@Thesefeetaremadeforwalking

Relax OP, When I got divorced my circle of female friends changed to divorced ones. We had many an amusing night at the pub talking about how our married friends had distanced us because they were scared that now we were available, we would go after their menfolk. The guys in question were so unappealing that we couldn't have fancied them in a month of Sundays, not even after 4 G&Ts.

I do think it's amusing that some women think their boring, balding husbands are wildly attractive to women simply because they've got a middle management job and a semi D in a naice part of town.