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Porn star martini Pizza Express

591 replies

Flour8977 · 31/03/2022 16:47

Why are Pizza Express advertising 'Porn Star Martinis' on every table at their restaurants? AIBU to find this disgusting for a family restaurant? I don't really wish to explain to my 6 year old what it is.

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GoodJanetBadJanet · 31/03/2022 20:57

So if your dc does accept that it's just "the name of a drink" what's to stop them asking for one on their next play date?

Lol, surely if they asked for one you'd say what you'd presumably say if they asked for a pint of beer?!
'' No, sorry that's a grown up alcohol drink, how about a lemonade or fruit shoot instead with your pizza? ''

Gonnagetgoing · 31/03/2022 21:01

@Silverclocks

Lots of "family" restaurants call it a Porn Star Martini. I know Frankiie and Bennys and Miller and Carter do I've had them there recently
@Silverclocks - exactly what I said! Where I live there’s at least 6 or more family restaurants. All call the drink a Pornstar Martini on their drinks menu as that’s what the name of it is. They’re hardly likely to change their menu because some mums are paranoid about little Johnny reading it on a drinks menu. And lots of drinkers like the drink and name and don’t have a problem with the name.

I hate the porn and sex exploitation industry but even I can see it’s just a name of a cocktail.

SockFluffInTheBath · 31/03/2022 21:03

Maybe it’s your opener to discuss the evils of porn and instill an early hatred. I think some people in this thread need real problems to worry about instead of looking for issues where they don’t exist.

BrightOrangeOrange · 31/03/2022 21:05

I hate the porn and sex exploitation industry but even I can see it’s just a name of a cocktail.

This makes no sense to me.

AskingforaBaskin · 31/03/2022 21:07

@Lavenderlid

So if your dc does accept that it's just "the name of a drink" what's to stop them asking for one on their next play date?
Just do a virgin one. Maybe it's because my kids have grown up in bars and pubs but they have had mock tails when we're and visiting friends.
Gonnagetgoing · 31/03/2022 21:08

@Normando91

I love a Pornstar Martini but agree there’s probably a better name for it on a menu at a family restaurant. I’ve been to loads of places where they call them Passionfruit Martinis.
@Normando91 - Pizza Express are trying to build business back up after the pandemic which includes women (and men) being a bit naughty/risqué by having a cocktail with a cheeky name. They’re not actually encouraging women to be porn stars or even minimising the porn industry from what I can see but I do think maybe in a family restaurant chain it’s a bit of a risky PR campaign to have the leaflets on every table. And I pointed out Ask and Zizzi don’t have the cocktail with this name. But I think Pizza Express are thinking that having this campaign is a risk worth taking and using the proper name with more adults buying the drinks as opposed to more parents buying their kids pizzas.
BettyUnderswoob · 31/03/2022 21:09

I hate the porn and sex exploitation industry but even I can see it’s just a name of a cocktail

This makes no sense to me either... so @Gonnagetgoing is any word at all just fine if part of the name of a cocktail?

cookiemonster2468 · 31/03/2022 21:09

Well I think it's inappropriate your 6 year old is reading the cocktail menu, but each to their own!

aylis · 31/03/2022 21:09

Of course YANBU. I can’t be going this pretending otherwise.

Blossomtoes · 31/03/2022 21:09

Wasn't that long ago there was a fight to put soft-porn magazines above children's eye levels

It must be a fuck of a long time ago because they were known as top shelf magazines when I was a teenager. I’m 70 next year.

Gonnagetgoing · 31/03/2022 21:10

@BrightOrangeOrange

I hate the porn and sex exploitation industry but even I can see it’s just a name of a cocktail.

This makes no sense to me.

@BrightOrangeOrange - it makes sense to me! It means I can see the difference between a name of a cocktail and I can also dislike that same industry.
CaveMum · 31/03/2022 21:10

@Gonnagetgoing but the issue in this particular case is that it’s not “just” on the drinks menu - PE are actively promoting the drink with flyers around the restaurant - another poster put a picture of the advertising material up on this thread at 18:24.

BettyUnderswoob · 31/03/2022 21:11

And porn is "a bit naughty" and "cheeky" ?

Dear lord.

SockFluffInTheBath · 31/03/2022 21:12

And I pointed out Ask and Zizzi don’t have the cocktail with this name.

Well I should hope none of the people getting in a tizzy about a pornstar martini ever take their kids to Zizzi 🙄

Gonnagetgoing · 31/03/2022 21:13

[quote CaveMum]@Gonnagetgoing but the issue in this particular case is that it’s not “just” on the drinks menu - PE are actively promoting the drink with flyers around the restaurant - another poster put a picture of the advertising material up on this thread at 18:24.[/quote]
@CaveMum - but as I stated above what’s wrong with that? The Pizza Express franchise obviously want to capitalise on the ladies who lunch/bottomless lunch crowd with this campaign as opposed to the parents with kids. Probably because the former will spend more money.

GoodJanetBadJanet · 31/03/2022 21:15

Pizza Express are trying to build business back up after the pandemic which includes women (and men) being a bit naughty/risqué by having a cocktail with a cheeky name
Yes, sometimes you want to go out without the kids and it's nice to have the choice of a cocktail menu.
Not sure why a kid would be reading the cocktail menu anyway, mine would be far more interested in what pizza to have than boring shit - - in their eyes - - like the cocktail menu!

Gonnagetgoing · 31/03/2022 21:15

@BettyUnderswoob

And porn is "a bit naughty" and "cheeky" ?

Dear lord.

@BettyUnderswoob - ah I’m butting out of this convo. I know exactly what I mean and what I’m getting at.

I actually don’t think it’s the best advert for the chain as they are quite family but i don’t think it’s the worst in the world.

It’s a promo advert. It’ll be gone in a month or so.

LittleDidSheKnow · 31/03/2022 21:16

The Pizza Express franchise obviously want to capitalise on the ladies who lunch

So you think a group of women are going to be drawn in and sold by "porn star"?

PriamFarrl · 31/03/2022 21:18

@HumptyDumpty2022

How on earth would you cope with Spotted Dick on the menu or Bangers and Mash or Cream Pie! Sorry but you’re being one of those mums, he’ll hear much worse at school soon.
Yes because ‘dick’ is exactly the same as ‘porn’ isn’t it.

Will people understand it’s not the connotations of sex but of sexual exploitation.

BrightOrangeOrange · 31/03/2022 21:19

@BrightOrangeOrange - it makes sense to me! It means I can see the difference between a name of a cocktail and I can also dislike that same industry.

Still doesn't make sense.

tigerbird · 31/03/2022 21:19

Just do a virgin one. Maybe it's because my kids have grown up in bars and pubs but they have had mock tails when we're and visiting friends.

LOL I hope you’re trolling because the idea of asking for a “virgin pornstar martini” for the DC is more “dark web porn culture” than “porn culture”. Grin

LittleDidSheKnow · 31/03/2022 21:21

No @PriamFarrl, they will not.

Seems it's quite a complicated distinction for some, however many times it's hammered out.

190190tnt · 31/03/2022 21:23

I have a different moan about PE (saw the pornstar ad quite fancied one but didn't) i ordered the leggera pizza, came up with a pile of rocket, literally no other salad,a dribble of dressing but worst of all, they have reduced the size of the leggera so when you pick the rocket up there is a big hole underneath! Not the usual hole in the middle - a massive hole with just a rim of pizza round the edge!!! Same bloody price though...

SleeplessInEngland · 31/03/2022 21:23

It’s a curious choice but I certainly can’t bring myself to be outraged by it.

AskingforaBaskin · 31/03/2022 21:24

@tigerbird

Just do a virgin one. Maybe it's because my kids have grown up in bars and pubs but they have had mock tails when we're and visiting friends.

LOL I hope you’re trolling because the idea of asking for a “virgin pornstar martini” for the DC is more “dark web porn culture” than “porn culture”. Grin

I'm really not. What's wrong with it? It's just juice and the venue we go to put a little passion fruit on the top.
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