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Britain's First Trans MP. ((TW references rape and car crash))

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TooBigForMyBoots · 30/03/2022 16:48

Jamie Wallis, The Conservative MP for Bridgend has come out as Britain's first Trans MP, having been diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria.

This is really big news on its own. However Jamie's statement contained lots of other things as well. He was being blackmailed, his blackmailer is in prison. He recently suffered rape.Sad He has PTSD from the rape which caused him to leave the scene of an accident last year, where he crashed his car.

AIBU to feel a bit discombobulated at Jamie Wallis' statement?Confused There is so much information.ConfusedConfusedConfused

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HomeHomeInTheRange · 31/03/2022 12:26

Loathsome though he is, Tatchell is a shrewd tactician. He can see that JW is the last person the TRA movement wants as its poster child first Trans MP

LOL, even if many of the foot soldiers cannot see how PT is trying to save them 🙄.

If JW is Trans, fair enough, get on with it, say he IS trans. By saying he is not ‘yet’ trans he is the one saying that, for him, Trans is not an innate quality but an acquirable quality or choice.

Anyway, the main issue is his obvious unfitness for office, and sadly (for all of us, not him) he is a long way down the field to be ‘first MP to be a sleazy, criminal liar with a track record as a politician who does not even attend a basic level of meetings’.

TooBigForMyBoots · 31/03/2022 13:04

I had no idea he had a wife and children.

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MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 31/03/2022 13:50

@TooBigForMyBoots

I had no idea he had a wife and children.
Seems to have slipped his mind too.
TooBigForMyBoots · 31/03/2022 15:57

@ginghamstarfish

How is this bloke still an MP anyway?
I think it's because he's Conservative.
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Hasselhoffsheadband · 31/03/2022 17:20

Yes, this isn't really the 'stunning and brave first ever transgender MP' that TRAs would be hoping for is it?

Ambiguous 'coming out' statement, no swishy hair, gold lame handbags, painted nails or high heels, no Glamour magazine front page interview any time soon, no new pronouns to berate people about misusing, and also a bit of a dodgy backstory to boot....

nightwakingmoon · 31/03/2022 18:47

@Hasselhoffsheadband

Yes, this isn't really the 'stunning and brave first ever transgender MP' that TRAs would be hoping for is it?

Ambiguous 'coming out' statement, no swishy hair, gold lame handbags, painted nails or high heels, no Glamour magazine front page interview any time soon, no new pronouns to berate people about misusing, and also a bit of a dodgy backstory to boot....

Exactly - a possibly abandoned trans widow and small kids; dodgy connections to the “softer” escort side of the sex industry; probably some interest in porn and kink buried under there if he’s been running sugar daddy websites; record of less than wholesome business dealings - it all checks out.

No wonder Tatchell is not keen to make “he/him” the face of “the trans community” for the public…!

Liveliferun · 05/04/2022 19:37

More sunlight

grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/the-jamie-wallis-story-gets-darker

Sexnotgender · 05/04/2022 19:43

[quote Liveliferun]More sunlight

grahamlinehan.substack.com/p/the-jamie-wallis-story-gets-darker[/quote]
Good lord. That’s insane.

Does no one do background checks?

TheFnozwhowasmirage · 05/04/2022 20:00

Dear Lord! Just when you think that it can't get any worse. Good job that sunlight is the best disinfectant.

ChristinaXYZ · 05/04/2022 20:04

[quote FOJN]It may be difficult for those in the echo chamber of the FWR board to believe this, but I don't think the average woman is as obsessed with the trans issue as they are.

You must have missed it.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4517485-201-babies-and-9-women-died-94-babies-with-life-changing-injuries-all-avoidable[/quote]
Yet twitter was full of NHS staff taking time from their busy days to point our how they would ignore the new guidance from the EHRC on women's single sex spaces. don't you get it the misogyny - ignore women's health, ignore women's concerns - is the same?

For those with broader minds this is a great summary as to why this should not be niche issue:

fairplayforwomen.com/letter-woman-called-terf/

and you'll notice that most of the points raised talk about women's treatment at the hands of the NHS.

It is two sides of the same coin (and I'm a bereaved parent - I'm not being flippant about baby deaths - as a bereaved parent I think this as important).

Ghislainedefeligonde · 05/04/2022 20:08

liveliferun
I mean you just couldn’t make this stuff up could you?? But of course if anyone now references either that or the sugar daddy stuff or any of his other failings they will immediately be shouted down as being transphobic….
I wonder when the court case will be heard and how much this announcement will help his case (from past knowledge of other trans women on trial it should certainly get the judge on side…)

Thatgingergirl · 05/04/2022 20:19

Liveliferun - That is absolutely shocking.

ChristinaXYZ · 05/04/2022 20:30

How do constituents get rid of an MP? Or can they?

I seem to remember that Sheffield Labour guy (so not just Tory MPs who are Teflon coated!) who unseated Nick Clegg was a massive problem for his constituency to shift.

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/04/2022 20:31

Do the Conservatives not vet their candidates?Hmm

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ChristinaXYZ · 05/04/2022 20:34

Not well enough @TooBigForMyBoots and it looks more and more like you were right to be discombobulated.

Whatsnewpussyhat · 05/04/2022 20:43

Dysphoria does not make someone 'trans'
It is a symptom of many issues NOT a cause.

Men like this claiming to be trans makes a mockery of the lives of actual transexuals.

Funny how when women talk about their rapes or assaults they are 'weaponising their trauma' and must get over it so men can freely invade their spaces.

Wrongkindofovercoat · 05/04/2022 21:07

I will be honest , my initial reaction listening to the news on the radio was sympathetic, but it just kept going, 'I am trans, but not quite yet, or may not be but think I would like to be, probably in the future, who knows, I was raped, I have PTSD, I crashed my car and fled the scene'

As a parent of teenagers over the years, your bullshit radar kicks off quite quickly, all it needed was for the news reader to end the story with 'and then ....' add in an assortment of even more highly unlikely scenarios to explain why they did the thing they shouldn't have

GreenClock · 05/04/2022 21:13

What a story. Very grim.

HermioneWeasley · 05/04/2022 21:59

Dear Lord, those latest revelations are grim reading, but why am I not entirely surprised? Any why didn’t the conservatives bet him properly?

Cwenthryth · 05/04/2022 22:04

Thai brides? On top of the sugar daddy and quickie divorce shit….it’s like misogyny bingo

But fecking MAKING A LIVING OUT OF GETTING PAEDOS OFF THE HOOK!!!!!

THIS is the best the conservatives could come up for an MP? This guy?

ChristinaXYZ · 06/04/2022 12:00

Isn't @Cwenthryth - and I am still baffled why the Tory vetting didn't pick this up and why the media are not looking into it properly.

Kendodd · 07/04/2022 08:53

I'm not.
Let's not forget, this is the Tory party (specifically the PM) who put the son of a KGB agent in the HoL despite concerns of the security services.
The press isn't all over it because most of the press support the Tories, I have little doubt that if this was a Labour MP it would be all over the front pages.
Most depressingly of all, I would bet money that if he was moved to a saver Tory seat, he'd be reelected.

TooBigForMyBoots · 07/04/2022 11:39

The press isn't all over it because most of the press support the Tories, I have little doubt that if this was a Labour MP it would be all over the front pages.

With a double centre spread on the extent of his very questionable behaviour. The RW press played a blinder on the trans issue, highlighting what other parties say and being very quiet on Tory support.

When people say at least the Tory's know what a woman is, that is not true, it's the impression given to them by their media.

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Murdoch1949 · 08/04/2022 06:44

Could understand him better if he was actually transitioning, taking hormones, planning surgery, growing his hair, dressing as a woman etc etc. To present as a man and say I'm a woman is ludicrous.

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