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To think my husband is gravely ill at the wrong time?

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MyOtherCarIsAPorsche · 26/03/2022 13:12

Masses of confusion.

Husband spoke to GP yesterday morning and described his chest pain. He was advised to call an ambulance. My husband refused because he didn't think he needed one - thought he had chest infection or torn muscle.

He went to A&E - was sat in a corridor from 10.30am - he had ecg, x ray and blood test. He continued to sit on a chair in the corridor all day.

He was told he was waiting for blood test results. These came back at 6pm. Then he had to wait for a CT scan - then rushed to resus.

Dissected aorta from heart level to naval level.

I was called to be allowed to sit with him because I wasn't allowed to be in A&E. Was then told he was being blue lighted to another hospital an hour away for immediate surgery. I asked is this time critical? The answer was - yes life saving.

Paramedics arrived and told me to set off to this other hospital. There were three paramedics. One said 'I'm not taking him because I can't use that bit of kit, I'll lose my job if something goes wrong'. No advanced paramedics available and no doctor available to go in the transfer.

I was 15 min into the journey and then called back to the hospital.

No surgery.

Trying all day today to get him transferred. Nothing available.

He's critically ill.

I'm out of my mind with worry.

There's a saying about not being ill on the weekend. The standard of care is not the same. The 24hr cover appears to not exist.

I feel like we're being fobbed off with poor excuses big style.

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Fraaahnces · 25/04/2022 08:09

Hoping it all goes smoothly and quickly today and that he is back in the arms of your obviously loving family asap!

Innocenta · 25/04/2022 08:10

All luck and good wishes to you both today Flowers

MadisonAvenue · 25/04/2022 08:16

Hope all goes well.

DFOD · 25/04/2022 08:18

Wishing you strength

olympicsrock · 25/04/2022 08:26

Thinking of you. Love and strength

SouperNoodle · 25/04/2022 08:46

Good luck today xxx

Words · 25/04/2022 08:49

All the best OP.

StampOnTheGround · 25/04/2022 09:04

Thinking of you today, hope all goes well x

DollieBantrysPantry · 25/04/2022 09:05

Thinking of you and hoping that everything goes well today

6demandingchildren · 25/04/2022 09:15

Thinking of you all today xx

MintyCedricRidesAgain · 25/04/2022 09:29

Wishing you and your family all the very best today...hope it all goes smoothly and he's soon on his way to recovery.

ILoveAllRainbowsx · 25/04/2022 09:57

All the best for today. I will be thinking of you. xxx

amusedbush · 25/04/2022 11:01

I've been lurking since this thread started, though I've had nothing of value to add! Your family family has been through the wringer and your strength is admirable.

Wishing you and your family all the very best today - I'll be thinking of you. My stomach is always in knots when I'm stressed but try to eat something energy dense and stay hydrated xx

AllOverIt · 25/04/2022 11:18

Sending strength ❤️

SunUpSunDown · 25/04/2022 11:34

I'm thinking of you all today. Sending much love xx

TheRealHousewife · 25/04/2022 11:46

Thinking of you today @MyOtherCarIsAPorsche ❤️

Throckmorton · 25/04/2022 12:03

My God, what you're going through!! Thinking of you all

MyOtherCarIsAPorsche · 25/04/2022 12:35

Each hour is becoming progressively slower.

This goes on day in, day out - surgeons are angels. They give so much to society for so little reward/recognition.

My grandchildren are asleep, I'll be able to busy myself soon when they wake.

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Matchingcollarandcuffs · 25/04/2022 12:49

Goodness did they give an indication of how long it's likely to take?

MarryMeTomHardy · 25/04/2022 12:49

Thinking of you today OP 🌷

Throckmorton · 25/04/2022 13:11

Big hugs and handholds

Christinatherabbit · 25/04/2022 13:54

Been thinking of you over the weekend. Hope everything goes well 💐

Goingforarun · 25/04/2022 14:25

You are absolutely amazing.

Ilovefluffysheep · 25/04/2022 14:42

Thinking of you, I hope all goes well.

LetitiaLeghorn · 25/04/2022 14:47

The hours drag when you're waiting for news but this is a big operation so it could be a while yet. And I so agree with surgeons being angels. My surgeon gave me my quality of life back. I can never thank him enough.
Hope you get good news soon.