@BOOTS52
I would have refused and requested my mum
- I would have screamed
- I would have fought back
- I wouldn't put up with xyz, I would have left the first time...
Stop victim blaming.
Also modern psychology has the 'fight or flight' response as 'fight, flight, freeze, appease.'
Without extensive training, it is a roll of the dice how an individual will respond to a traumatic situation.
That's why soldiers, emergency service people are trained again and again, drilled, about how to act in crisis situations, so that their training kicks in and not their natural response, which could be anything.