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AIBU?

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DP being childish.

111 replies

supersop60 · 27/02/2022 12:03

Just a short one, and venting really.
DP decided to change the bedding this morning, and complained that 'all of the duvet covers are missing'. (they're not)
Anyway, he went to work and I went to put a clean cover on, and couldn't find the dirty one anywhere - not in the wash basket, or in a pile. So I rang him - where's the duvet cover you took off?
reply - 'it's in the back of my car, I'm taking it to the dump, I've always hated it'
To which I replied 'Fuck that. I'm going to throw away all the stuff of yours that I hate!'
WIBU?

OP posts:
Maray1967 · 27/02/2022 20:20

I love it - it’s my guest bedroom duvet set.
In fact I love it that much that I have it as my ironing board cover!
Yes, you need to sort this out. There is no way either of us would just take stuff to the tip that the other one likes.

PliqueAjour · 27/02/2022 21:16

Would all of those posters slagging off your personal taste in duvet covers care to share pictures of their own so we can all judge please?

Alicenwonderland · 27/02/2022 21:28

My ex was like this. He was an abusive ass. He was controlling and he would always find a way to sabotage anything I enjoyed or liked. As a single incident I can understand the comments you've got but there's obviously a history. Never too late to leave, life is too short to be miserable.

Alicenwonderland · 27/02/2022 21:29

Oh, I also love the duvet cover 😉

WomanStanleyWoman · 28/02/2022 03:13

@PliqueAjour

Would all of those posters slagging off your personal taste in duvet covers care to share pictures of their own so we can all judge please?
Why would they? None of them ever mentioned their duvets.
WalkingOnTheCracks · 28/02/2022 08:13

@PliqueAjour

Would all of those posters slagging off your personal taste in duvet covers care to share pictures of their own so we can all judge please?
And would all of those praising your personal tast in duvet covers care to share pictures of other stuff they own, so we can all decide whether their praise is worth having?
BobHadBitchTits · 28/02/2022 10:55

OP, you've been moaning about this man since at least 2014 (I gave up looking in the end).

He breaks things in anger. He hides your things. He hoards stuff for himself. He lies to your children about you. He's angry. He swears. He purposely ruins your things. He goes behind your back. He cheated.

Why are you continuing this relationship? You aren't happy.

SmolCat · 28/02/2022 13:17

@BobHadBitchTits

OP, you've been moaning about this man since at least 2014 (I gave up looking in the end).

He breaks things in anger. He hides your things. He hoards stuff for himself. He lies to your children about you. He's angry. He swears. He purposely ruins your things. He goes behind your back. He cheated.

Why are you continuing this relationship? You aren't happy.

Oh OP. Move on. Move out. Fill your new happy home with every single item Dunelm ever made in that floral bird print and live your best floral bird life.
User73ui843 · 28/02/2022 13:33

@BigHairyCoconut

He sounds very sexy and mature.
Lmao
whiteworldgettingwhiter · 28/02/2022 19:46

@BobHadBitchTits

OP, you've been moaning about this man since at least 2014 (I gave up looking in the end).

He breaks things in anger. He hides your things. He hoards stuff for himself. He lies to your children about you. He's angry. He swears. He purposely ruins your things. He goes behind your back. He cheated.

Why are you continuing this relationship? You aren't happy.

Oh, op. I've read some of your other threads. If a relationship is happy, you wouldn't need to ask for advice on it.

Please leave this man and move on. Be happy.

Isseywith3witchycats · 28/02/2022 20:12

everyone saying how horrid that set is i must have no taste as i have the same one in dark blue and pale grey and i love both of them my OH wouldnt even notice what duvet cover was on our bed as long as he is getting into nice fresh bedding got to admit when we got together he had some awful very man style sets and getting a bigger new bed was a good excuse for me to take them to the charity shop

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