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Neighbours’ leaving-the-house ritual

258 replies

warmeduppizza · 24/02/2022 17:46

Next door neighbours have got primary age kids. Every time any family member leaves the house for school, work, activities or whatnot, the remaining members of the household enthusiastically gather in the doorway and perform this lengthy and noisy ritual as if they’re never going to see each other again. They jump up and down and shout BYE!! at the top of their voice, alternating with the person who is leaving, at increasing pitch and volume, for the entire time it takes the person to walk down the street and round the corner (about 30 houses).
The first few times I found it quite endearing, but after two years of being subjected to this several times a day, it’s beginning to really grate. It’s loud, frequent and in your face (long narrow echoey street of tall town houses).
AIB a grumpy old fart or do they sound a bit unhinged?

OP posts:
warmeduppizza · 25/02/2022 11:04

Aw @Wilburisagirl, that must be so hard for your DD Sad

OP posts:
Wilburisagirl · 25/02/2022 12:21

@warmeduppizza it's certainly been hard on her but we've been busy having lots of fun since restrictions ended and she's started Kinder recently and is absolutely loving it so I think she will be fine in the long run.

CatkinToadflax · 25/02/2022 12:40

DS has autism and goes to a special school in a taxi. For several years he had the same driver every day who totally ‘got’ him and understood his need for a very precise routine. Every day the driver would drop him off in the evening in front of our house and shout “GET OUT OF MY CAB!” to which DS would shout back “GET OFF MY ROAD!”. They both found it hilarious. Not sure what our neighbours thought though! Blush Grin

ThinWomansBrain · 25/02/2022 12:45

sounds dire - but it could be worse
shouting and swearing at each other & door slamming?

Rummikub · 25/02/2022 13:03

@CatkinToadflax

DS has autism and goes to a special school in a taxi. For several years he had the same driver every day who totally ‘got’ him and understood his need for a very precise routine. Every day the driver would drop him off in the evening in front of our house and shout “GET OUT OF MY CAB!” to which DS would shout back “GET OFF MY ROAD!”. They both found it hilarious. Not sure what our neighbours thought though! Blush Grin
This is adorable!
catscatscatseverywhere · 25/02/2022 13:08

@FionnulaTheCooler

I used to have a neighbour like this, if the leaving person was driving it was accompanied by horn beeping. It was annoying as hell.
Shock
sussexoldspot · 25/02/2022 19:22

@TheMissingMango

Get a small bell and every time they do it, sit in the window and ring it until they're finished. Never discuss the bell with them.
Either this or an air horn.
OdeToSadDisco · 25/02/2022 19:27

My DC don't even say bye to me half the time! A happy medium would be nice!

Madamum18 · 25/02/2022 19:31

I think this suggests a very false "arent we a wonderful close family and we MUST demonstrate it to everyone" act...and I bet when the Sh** hits the fan for anyone in the family they all run for the hills!! I know a family just like that!!

Pure surmising on my part though!

Mybumlooksbig · 25/02/2022 19:32

Join in with them, see if it freaks them out.

User8721643839 · 25/02/2022 19:33

@CatkinToadflax

DS has autism and goes to a special school in a taxi. For several years he had the same driver every day who totally ‘got’ him and understood his need for a very precise routine. Every day the driver would drop him off in the evening in front of our house and shout “GET OUT OF MY CAB!” to which DS would shout back “GET OFF MY ROAD!”. They both found it hilarious. Not sure what our neighbours thought though! Blush Grin
I flipping love this!!
CallmeBadJanet · 25/02/2022 19:36

Why are you watching it each time?🤔

DePfeffoff · 25/02/2022 19:37

I wonder what will happen the first time one of their children decides they'd rather not stop what they're doing and s/he is going to give it a miss?

Middleagedspreadisreal · 25/02/2022 19:39

Chill. Life's short. Some countries are at war. People are living in dire circumstances in refugee camps. Smile and let.it.go

I8toys · 25/02/2022 19:41

My dad beeps his horn everytime time he drives away - its like he's conditioned to it. Mirror, signal manouevre beep. No idea why but drives me mad! This too would chaff after time.

Inthesameboatatmo · 25/02/2022 19:42

God that would annoy the fuck out me op.
I would actually have to say something to them or do as a pp said . Every time they do it you do it. I feel for you I really do

Lovingthemalbec · 25/02/2022 19:44

We do this but only with my ASD daughter. She insists on a full Royal farewell as she leaves in the taxi for school. She actually used to insist the cat joined in too, thankfully she has forgotten this since we moved. 😅

Footle · 25/02/2022 19:45

I had a lodger once who called
out heartily every time he came home "I'm back! Did you miss me?"

Insanelysilver · 25/02/2022 19:48

When the kids reach teenage they’ll prob just grunt a goodbye and that’s if they can even be asked to do that.
How old are they now?

fussyhousewife · 25/02/2022 19:52

Does anyone in that house have learning difficulties or autistic. I deal with a 13 year old autistic lad who makes quite a big deal out of saying goodbye and yes it can be loud and grating but it only lasts a minute or two.

Tomorrowillbeachicken · 25/02/2022 19:54

The nutcases live among us

LoisLane66 · 25/02/2022 19:59

Unhinged

Mmarmite · 25/02/2022 20:01

Oh dear, is this me?!

Mmarmite · 25/02/2022 20:03

Not the crazy goodbye people! I meant to respond to the comment about a frazzled mother…

mamabear715 · 25/02/2022 20:05

Lol, we are a very close family too, and every time my eldest daughter leaves to go home, the rest of us gather & giggle at her car being opened, as it sounds like something going through the checkout at Aldi, beep beep.. we all wave frantically & shout bye, and she drives off, hazards flashing, but our road has quite a few bends going down to the main road, and on the bend nearest to us but many feet below, she'll shout byeeeee through the car window, and we'll shout byeee back.. ;-) And I cackle with laughter EVERY TIME.
Sorry if MY neighbours are reading this! ;-)