[quote RussianSpy101]@starshipsahead how is it a waste? Without knowing everyone’s reason for choosing private, you can’t say that.
I’ve not chosen private for my children because I’m desperate for them to go to oxbridge. I’ve chosen their school because it is the best for them and what parent doesn’t want the best for their children?
If my children choose to go to university, they will obviously end up with teens from state school as they are a huge majority so I hope that’s not your attempt at calling it a waste?
Private school is about much, much more than grades.
I would never consider it a waste of money.[/quote]
I didn't say it was necessarily a waste, I was saying that many private school parents will feel defensive about it in case it's a waste. Which in all honesty it might be in some cases, in some cases it might not.
I went to one of the best private schools in the country, as did my DH. I understand the benefits. However as a teacher who has taught in a few state schools now- I can also quite clearly see that in some cases state schools can very much match what private schools are doing in terms of the experience, and certainly the education that the child receives. Working in state schools has really opened my eyes to just how good some state schools are- and so yes, I do think it's very possible that some parents are 'wasting' their money. We will never know though- as we can't school our children twice to compare.
As someone who went to private school myself, and who can v much afford private for my children, I will be choosing to send them to state.
I'm just suggesting that maybe, given this is a thread about expensive things that are worth every penny, that perhaps that isn't always the case for private education.