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Will you self isolate if covid positive test?

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Monopolyiscrap · 12/02/2022 00:47

Compulsory self-isolation is ending if you test positive with covid. Instead, people are being advised to choose to self-isolate.
In reality, I think many people will not. I would not get paid if I self-isolate but am well enough to work, so why would I forego a week's wages?

So will you self-isolate if you test positive with covid?

YABU - Yes I will self-isolate
YANBU - No I will not self-isolate

OP posts:
Toanewstart23 · 12/02/2022 16:01

@Monopolyiscrap

Even if you have symptoms, if you are well enough to work, a lot of employers will expect you in.
Too right
TheOrigRights · 12/02/2022 16:04

@Toanewstart23

I’m not right and you’re not wrong!

You gave the impression we should all be testing when asymptomatic for any and all trips out

I asked

You confirmed that only for care homes!

Fairly important distinction don’t you think?

Yes, I have already said you are right and I am wrong and I bow to you for allowing me to expand on the following:

We were asked:

Why would you test if you weren't ill?

I responded:

To rule out that you've got asymptomatic covid.

Readers, I should have said To rule out that you've got asymptomatic covid when you are visiting someone vulnerable.

I am sorry for anyone who got the wrong impression.

LyricalBlowToTheJaw · 12/02/2022 16:06

@KatyRebecca84

I won’t be testing so I won’t know. Surely they’re taking away testing soon too?
Yeah, so for all the fuss over it, there's not a very big window where this is going to actually be an issue. People won't and cannot realistically be expected to test at their own expense to go about most of ordinary life.
Toanewstart23 · 12/02/2022 16:08

So odd you don’t seem to think tagging on “when visiting a care home” is relevant Grin

ilovesooty · 12/02/2022 16:16

@Narutocrazyfox

How would you even know you had it? Surely no one will be testing.
It's been stated on here that some of us will continue to test for specific purposes.

@Toanewstart, we evidently move in different circles.

Echobelly · 12/02/2022 16:17

I will self-isolate, but then I'm fortunate to work a job I can do from home and also to have sick leave if I need it. I can see it would be a lot harder for some. This is all assuming anyone can get tests of course...

ilovesooty · 12/02/2022 16:19

@LyricalBlowToTheJaw I've also said that I plan to continue to test when I have to pay if the tests are available but I appreciate that many people can't.

LyricalBlowToTheJaw · 12/02/2022 16:22

[quote ilovesooty]@LyricalBlowToTheJaw I've also said that I plan to continue to test when I have to pay if the tests are available but I appreciate that many people can't.[/quote]
Yes, I expect the number will be higher than zero. But as you say, many people can't. Others won't and still others might start doing it but peter out once they've worked through their stash and it becomes a bit more effort to get hold of the things.

Toanewstart23 · 12/02/2022 16:24

@ilovesooty

How will you fare when no more free tests and expensive to obtain?

MargosKaftan · 12/02/2022 16:25

I test twice a week as I'm expected to for work. Also test before going to see in laws or if we are doing something where they have asked if you can test beforehand. But once all that stops, assume I'll only test when visiting elderly people/have been in contact with someone i know to have it or have symptoms, so guess testing will stop picking up the asymptomatic people.

Toanewstart23 · 12/02/2022 16:26

I have a sneaking suspicion
That when cost creeps in re testing
Suddenly many of those crying for continued isolation post positive test, will start to go rather quiet!

ilovesooty · 12/02/2022 16:28

[quote Toanewstart23]@ilovesooty

How will you fare when no more free tests and expensive to obtain?[/quote]
The sum I've seen quoted so far is a price I'm prepared to pay once it's necessary, assuming that the tests are available. I don't feel I have to test very often and as I'm self employed I shall submit them as a work expense on my tax return.

Toanewstart23 · 12/02/2022 16:29

That’s great, good for you

Let’s see how other, who can’t claim as a business expense, fare!

ilovesooty · 12/02/2022 16:32

@Toanewstart23

That’s great, good for you

Let’s see how other, who can’t claim as a business expense, fare!

I've already acknowledged that others will not be in the same position as I am.

Besides, I thought that your stance was I just don't want to and your claim is that the vast majority feel as you do. In that case they won't care about the tests not being free any more.

Monopolyiscrap · 12/02/2022 16:34

@Toanewstart23

I have a sneaking suspicion That when cost creeps in re testing Suddenly many of those crying for continued isolation post positive test, will start to go rather quiet!
Why would you criticise that? Living costs are rising. Lots of people are struggling. So why would they pay for tests?
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ShallWeTalkAboutBruno · 12/02/2022 16:35

Are you allowed to claim things as a business expense if they’re not a business expense?

WinterGold · 12/02/2022 16:36

@Toanewstart23

I have a sneaking suspicion That when cost creeps in re testing Suddenly many of those crying for continued isolation post positive test, will start to go rather quiet!
Totally!

The same way that those who tended be pro tighter restrictions were those either with the luxury of employment with a guaranteed income(scientists in particular!), on benefits - so their income was never going to be impacted - or the wealthy retired. The rest of us either hung on by the skin of our teeth or fell completely by the wayside.

ilovesooty · 12/02/2022 16:37

@ShallWeTalkAboutBruno

Are you allowed to claim things as a business expense if they’re not a business expense?
I shall speak with my accountant. If he considers it an allowable business expense I'll claim it. If he doesn't, then I won't and I will have to stand the cost myself. As I said, I'm fortunate to be able to.
figuringoutmylife · 12/02/2022 16:38

I will self-isolate to try to keep others safe.

twelly · 12/02/2022 16:44

I would not test so wouldn't know I had covid unless I was ill. If I was ill I would rest and depending upon the severity I would stay at home - as for any other illness but as I would't be testing I wouldn't know if it was covid or not. I

mytrueaccount · 12/02/2022 16:45

I must say I've been wondering what we're SUPPOSED to do. Eg from Monday you can hop on a plane back to the UK from abroad without testing before or after. That means that some people in the plane will have covid.

And what about the royal family? Is it really right that if Prince Charles had got covid for the second time in May rather than right now, we'd be happy for him to go around meeting crowds and shaking hands? Are we happy for the Queen to go out and meet people who may unknown to themselves be positive?

But what else does "live with it" mean in the long run?

RedToothBrush · 12/02/2022 16:49

@OrinocoGlow

You make good points RedToothBrush. I don't know the answers though. I have reservations about known positive cases mixing with other people for the obvious reasons but also see the issues with continuing to enforce isolation especially on more vulnerable people, including children at risk of harm. I wish we could trust the government to make well considered decisions in the best interests of the population but I don't think we can.
FWIW, DH is currently positive. I'm not.

We normally go to the pub on a Friday, and I could have gone last night. I think its a bit silly to do as I don't really need to. So beyond going to the supermarket (masked) and taking DS to school (masked) I've not done anything.

Even if I did test positive, and had to go to work, I think I would take the attitude of keeping movements outside the house to a minimum. Thats not saying I would 100% stay in - just that I perhaps have a rethink about what I absoluetely had to do. Thing is, if you feel like crap, you don't really want to go out anyway.

I think there might be more people with this mindset rather than thinking they will go out, party and socialise in as many busy places as they possibly could. In this sense, I don't think you'll get a massive increase in cases - because you are already infectious before you get symptoms / test positive in a lot of cases anyway - so the chances are you've already had a good opportunity to pass it on to anyone you work closely with anyway. (Also see my earlier point about schools).

This is where, masks in public places, being compulsory would actually be better now than some weeks ago too.

So I think rather than a cliff edge of things being 100% prepandemic over isolation, you will still see a gradual softing of behaviour and a certain amount of self limitation anyway. Not full on complete isolation but a certain more measured stepped behavioural change.

On a separate note:

I think the incoming political issues (massive cost of living increases and fuel poverty) are probably beyond the remit of SAGE too. The government know they are going to have to manage covid issues along side these growing fears. You risk a situation where you are more liable to get civil unrest, if you are also told you MUST isolate on top of that. Look at the freedom protests that are spring up all over the place. Ontario has an ongoing state of emergency over it. The government are protecting themselves by taking this into consideration, but unrest would definitely also risk other harms to the public (we really don't need something like another blockage which pushes up prices even further right now).

Financially the cost of isolation and asymptomatic testing is extortant. Someone has a spreadsheet adding up the cost of free tests and the cost of isolation sick pay next to a column looking at the cost of a benefit break for fuel price rises...

I try and be honest about where people's mindset now is and how much they are likely to tolerate and for how much longer. People will ultimately try and support others and be considerate as long as its not at too much cost to themselves, and as the cost to themselves increases they become much more hostile. If we didn't change anything in the next couple of months we will start to see other increasing problems. Life is going to get harder in other ways for a lot of people...

In terms of the actual figures, if you look at the number of positive cases, the spike for onicrom was very sharp upwards. Its not declining as fast, but there is a very marked difference between where we were and the trend (despite increasing non-compliance) is still significantly downward. Its a much steeper decline than previous waves. In the 7 days to the 7th Feb, most authorities saw a decline in cases by 20% over the week (and this trend is also reflected in hospitalisations and deaths so isn't due to people simply testing less). Its now 12th Feb so we are some days behind that point. If the trend continues - and its likely to increase in the % of decline, over the next couple of weeks - we are likely to be starting to see rates of around 200 per 100,000 in a large percentage of the country by the time the rule change kicks in. We've had rates of well over 2000 just a few weeks back.

At that point, yes a relaxing of the rules again starts to look much more reasonable.

One of the things has been precisely that the omicron spike hasn't been as high as anticipated, so moving things forward doesn't sound crazy. Unfortunately this has also markedly reduced the credibility and influence of those voices wanting to maintain restrictions - including from scientists too. But as it standards the numbers may not be great, but the direction of travel, also doesn't give the level of cause for concern that others are suggesting either.

And thats produced another unavoidable reality:

From a purely political POV, Johnson hasn't got a hope in hell in getting an extension past the late March renewal date as things stand politically - we won't get a successor before then even if he were to quit next week. There are too many Tories who want to axe the measures now. I think to an extent, Johnson's announcement is an acknowledgement of that political reality, rather than him doing it purely to 'save himself'. I don't think any potential successor will go on record staying keep the rule legal, beyond that point either. This isn't merely fall out from 'partygate' despite what many people will try and tell you. The political shift on this was already in progress pre-Christmas.

I think I'd probably be happier with a couple more weeks of isolation - but I've said that before on the last two occasions and suspect thats my more cautious nature to do that (I know plenty of people on this thread will consider me utterly reckless but I'm really not).

However we roll back, whenever we do it, its going to cause huge amounts of anxiety for lots of people.

I think I am slightly more hesitate in terms of whether I think this will stay permenant. There are definitely scenarios where I think a screaming u-turn could happen. But most likely not for some months. And I think covid has really shown we need to make the most of things whilst we can to a greater or less degree.

Yes the decision is partly political, but I also think we are running out of road in terms of options generally anyway and the political landscape is such that its not happening purely for the benefit of Johnson either.

The public mood is shifting, and that shift is going to accelerate in the coming weeks towards the same thing anyway. I think there is a certain sense of trying to predict how quickly this is going to happen, and trying to get ahead of it.

SpiderinaWingMirror · 12/02/2022 16:49

People are just going to stop testing. Dd14 has just missed another 8 days of school, following the rules. Her symptoms were such that she would have gone to school. She missed 26 weeks school across years 7 and 8. Now she is year 9 and her education is basically sitting in a school hall with 3 classes being supervised.
Just before the pandemic, the EA was running a campaign "everyone day counts". There is zero sign of any catch up programme.

tintodeverano2 · 12/02/2022 16:54

If I got it again and felt as rough as I have this week, then I'd have no choice but to isolate.

TheKeatingFive · 12/02/2022 16:55

Really insightful analysis RedToothBrush you've raised a lot of important points that aren't necessarily always acknowledged on here.

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