[quote Graphista]@Acidburn no - but we do need a govt and a system that treats people humanely and with compassion and understanding.
I don't think that's asking too much!
I first started work when I was 14, at 16 I worked full time and studied part time and lived in a bedsit, at 18 after getting my a levels I was able to get a better paid job and enter a flat share.
I'm not averse to hard work I know very few people who are!
But at times when I NEEDED help I was/am treated as if I was/am lazy, feckless scum!
The times I needed help primarily were :
When I first became a single mum due to ex cheating and knocking up ow!
When I became disabled through no fault of my own (not that fault should matter!)
I have literally BEGGED for help/guidance/advice/training to get back into work and there has been none!
I have applied for hundreds of jobs and the employers don't even do the courtesy of an electronic mail shot informing candidates the post has been filled.
I've also seen how others in the system have been treated and it's a fucking disgrace!
Even if either a person or a system/dept is ideologically opposed to the welfare system that's NEVER an excuse to treat individual people like crap! Which is what happens all the bloody time!
I will not be blaming the government/ the public / the world for my mistakes.
Please DO say what "mistakes" you are referring to!
My daughter was NOT a mistake
My disability was not MY mistake
No one forces you to live in places that are too rural to travel to work from
And what about the people BORN in rural areas who don't have the money or ability to move away? Moving house costs money!
No one forces you to have too many children who require constant childcare so you can't go back to work.
Peoples circumstances change!
As in my earlier post when I had my daughter I was married, working, solvent. There is absolutely no way at that point I could have predicted my ex cheating and becoming a deadbeat dad, or the accident that caused my disability.
Be careful - NOBODY knows what is around the corner life can turn on you!
And KurtWilde is right - all you said doesn't even consider the ESSENTIAL workers who are on nmw working full time and still needing UC top ups because nmw even at full time hours ISN'T ENOUGH TO LIVE ON
And you can't see how utterly tone deaf your comments are?
Clearly not!
I can't see that. I grew up in Soviet Union in the 90s
Did you used to post under another name? That history seems familiar
We had no living room, because it was 1 bed flat there are families in this country NOW not even in flats living in ONE room all together - not even a separate kitchen!
Tealightsandd - if you haven't already (I suspect you may have) you may be interested to look into just how many Mp'S (of all parties) are landlords, multiple property owners, have shares or their immediate family do in construction, property development etc
Then look at how those mps vote on housing issues!
It's a horrifically corrupt mess! They have a vested interest in keeping house prices high.
It should be illegal as a conflict of interest.
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Very eloquent.