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AIBU to not send an itemised list of everything dc being with them for contact with dad?

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BewareTheRedNosedDragon · 21/12/2021 12:38

3 DC going to spend 5 days with dad over Xmas - first overnight for years. He has asked for an itemised list of everything they are each bringing. I don't particularly want to do this.
AIBU or is he?

OP posts:
lilly7221w · 21/12/2021 18:49

What are those bastard sticky things that climb down walls? (and leave smear masks) send those.

Honestly is he doing it so that he knows everything is covered? (me being kind)

Just say "sorry really pushed for time, please make a list when they arrive."

I'd send the bedding, but only because they won't have any...

BewareTheRedNosedDragon · 21/12/2021 19:12

Well, I said I would send bedding and, despite having literally a few texts ago sent a list which included 'bedding', he replied that he hadn't asked me to send it Hmm

I don't know why he thinks he can still gaslight me when the thing he is denying is written down, but he persists in doing it.

So at least they will have that.

OP posts:
upaladderagain · 21/12/2021 19:23

List:
Clothes, various
Shoes, various
Toys, various
Coats, various
Toiletries, various

MOmiMa · 21/12/2021 19:33

Whatever you do make sure you send slime and kinetic sand... *
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