Just tell them to go fuck themselves

[ImperfectTents]

So many threads about horrible partners, siblings, parents and friends.

Life Is too short. Full disclosure my relationship of 25 years has crashed to earth and after years of playing nice I’ve had enough. Believe me they should all go fuck themselves. ESP the paedo granddad and the man who gave his partner Covid and now is keeping her prisoner in the spare room.

For the love of god tell them to get to fuck

Thank you

Thank you vipers!!! I posted about this the other day on here (not in AIBU and not asking for opinions on who was right/ wrong) and was told we sounded like nightmare neighbours, because I called her an entitled bitch, because she is (not because she slams doors, there are plenty of examples that prove she is).

She's left with a suitcase, hopefully for Christmas 2050

YES! I’ve been fuck off-minded since my mid 20s and it’s only solidified as I get older. People pleasers drive me a bit mad. Life really is as simple as telling people to fuck off if you want it to be

as oprah says - when someone shows you their true selves for the first time, believe it.

(or it's something like that but i can't remember exactly)

Ah I found people who understand. Hello!

I have told my entire maternal extended family to fuck off because they chose to hang around with a rapist in their midst (and put other family children at risk) rather than face up to the truth that their Irish Catholic clan are a joke built on alcohol abuse and lies.

I wish I could tell my teenage DS's to fuck off (one of them called me mean today and I am NOT mean) but I am giving leeway for hormones

Ex H gets told to fuck off all the time and reminded he should be in jail for my broken jaw but isn't because I put our DC first.

DP - he needs telling to fuck off as he is moping around because his ex got married 2 days ago. He doesn't know I know but if he continues with the moping he will be told to get to fuck also.

I have 40 years left at best (42 now) and I am NOT letting the second half of my life be as frustrating as the first. I was fucked over, I am not getting fucked over again

I LOVE THIS POST 😁

‘No’ is a complete sentence.
‘No thank you, as that does not work for me’.
Rinse and repeat. Rinse and repeat…

I am proud to report that I am not running a restaurant/waiting hand and foot for anyone outside of my household OR spending any time with rude or annoying extended family members over the Christmas/New Year break.

Happy Christmas 🎄 & wishing you all a better and happier New Year ⭐️

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Someone in my life is rude, selfish, deeply unkind and unfair, controlling and bullying towards me and I want to tell them I don't want them poisoning my life any more. To do so though might mean losing my relationship with my beloved daughter and grandson and I suspect the behaviour is designed partly to engineer this. So I work on staying strong and loving for those I love while I play the long game. It rips my heart out at times though. We've never had someone like this in the family before so it's a steep learning curve.

Totally with you!!

I woke up this Boxing day morning whimpering from a dream, PTSD related.

Go fuck yourselves to the arseholes who have traumatised me!
Yes, fuck off and fuck off some more and then when you think you've fucked off all you can fuck off, continue to fuck off!

Words to live by

What about having GFY cards to send out at this time of year. Christmas cards to those who you do wish all the best and GFY cards to let the selfish twats in your life know you've had enough.

@Agadorsparticus

What about having GFY cards to send out at this time of year. Christmas cards to those who you do wish all the best and GFY cards to let the selfish twats in your life know you've had enough.

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Yes! I would buy these. Take this to Dragon's Den

Absolutely spot on. Life is not to be sacrificed at the alter of shit relationships.

I agree. I have only a handful of people now that i'm close with, and spend time with - quality is 100% better than quantity (though ive never told anyone to actually fuck off 😂 just gradually shifted them out to arms length, or just stopped communicating with them completely). I spent decades navigating a toxic relationship with my incredibly unpleasant sister. My eureka moment occurred when a friend said to me that the saying 'blood is thicker than water' was one of the most unempowering and damaging phrases in the English language. I realised that i'd've had her out of my life years before if not for that label 'sister'. She still doesnt get it, she still uses the "but i'm your sister" phrase, as her entitlement to be forgiven everything.

Good relationships are built on mutual time, effort and emotion invested, not on labels. If you're involved with someone who doesnt invest any of those in you, then yes, kick them right to the kerb!

Would be great but people generally are too scared of conflict and change

Completely agree with Team go fuck yourself! After getting rid of abusive sub standard male & his bloodsucking family, drunken sister constantly asks inappropriate questions and makes inappropriate suggestions along the lines of 'you need to get a man sexy mofo (I'm not & I don't)' - you get the picture, in front of my teens. Yesterday I had enough. Told her to butt out of my life and get her face out of the bottle. Didn't go down well at all, but fuck em.

I have a thread going with this on - surprisingly there's a lot of objection to it. You lot might appreciate it better!

I'mProud to be a fully fledged member of the go fuck yourself club. Little sad it took me until my early 50s to get here and my circle has grown small but it's full of all the best non abusing look out for each other no attitude wonderful people.

I wish I could teach the young generation what I know now so they don't go through the same shit with the same type of shitty people but sadly we all have to learn for ourselves.