WWYD? Leaving small kids for 2 nights

[TheHeartGoesLast]

DH and I are going to a wedding next week, which is a 4 hour drive away and will necessitate a 2 night stay. Children are not invited. This is will mean leaving my 1 and 3 year old with their grandparents (who we see regularly and they have a good relationship with) for 2 nights.

I have only spent one night away from DS, and none from DD. They are both creatures of habit and v attached to me. Is this going to scar them forever? I'm worried about traumatising them, I know at some point they'll be upset I'm not there. I'm really stressed about it. Would you go?

In my experience, the children with the most attachment issues as older children are those that have never been left with anyone.

I have 4 DC, the eldest who is now an adult and we have always left them with family for usually 1 night but also for 2/3 nights. We went away for a special birthday present without them for 4 nights.

I have a great and close relationship with all of them and none of them have any attachment issues at all, happy going to nursery/school without being upset. I'm 💯 sure I haven't scarred them.