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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To say that there is a huge amount of anti vax threads allowed on mumsnet?

310 replies

visitingagain · 09/12/2021 16:07

I fully expect this to be taken down but I am getting completely fed up with the number of anti vax and anti mask threads on mumsnet at the moment. People should be allowed to express views but some of the misinformation is shocking.

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Whatwouldscullydo · 10/12/2021 09:21

Those of us working closely with the public witness this poor behaviour every time

Ha I work in retail. Just there days ago a customer entered with theor mask across ther forehead. Fiddled with throught theor vist Pulled up pulled down etc

We also have a toilet. I can tell you now that none of the customers are ever in in long enough to have peed and washed their hands. The hand dryer gets used one in 5 visits maybe ( we can hear it) I then have to take money from dry hands...

Even if their mask was sterile ut won't be for long.

HereComesSpringAgain · 10/12/2021 09:22

@Sparklingbrook

I do wonder about people standing observing people and their mask wearing. Long enough to notice it’s ‘damp’ and ‘grubby’, and that the masks always live in the bottom of pockets and handbags. Plus the wearer never washes their hands. That’s quite the study Grin

I take stuff posted on the CV Topic with a huge pinch of salt on the whole. There are posters with agendas and some love a bit of scaremongering.

I wonder if it’s time for some sub sections? A Coronavirus AIBU maybe?

Bit of 'door marshalling' comes with the job

Standing at the door welcoming customers, offering ( new clean ) masks, reminding them of new rules etc..... you know, being a responsible company

So why wonder about people stood observing when it's part of the job.

tigger1001 · 10/12/2021 09:24

@QueenofKattegat

I see this sort of comment a lot. It’s bizarre. No one is recommending that sort of mask. No one at all. It’s not difficult to have a decent mask on your person to use when needed. Why pretend that’s the case?

Because it is the case.

Don't you go out? Have you ever witnessed somebody remove a sterile mask from a ziplocked bag and put it on with hands that have been sanitised up to the elbow, and then not touch or adjust that mask again once it is on their face? I haven't. Not once. The vast majority of people whip out the mask they have had in their coat pocket/glove box for days/weeks and stick it on because they have to. It gapes at the side, they fiddle with it because it steams up their glasses, it's taken off at the supermarket door and worn the next time they nip in. Which study has found that this makes masks effective?

I would agree.

My kids have to wear masks all day at school. There isn't an endless supply of masks and I can guarantee almost all will wear the same one all day, taking it off at lunch and putting it back on.

I also see it at work. People put it on to move around the office, then take it off and put it on their desk, until next time they need to move around.

thepeopleversuswork · 10/12/2021 09:24

@Whatwouldscullydo

What's to understand. Everyone has the right to decide what they do with their bodies.

But only as long as it doesn't have a damaging impact on other people's bodies. This is the central point that the "my body my choice" lobby fails to grasp.

This would be fine if it was just your body. But its not. It's the health of the broader community and the impact on society and the healthcare system.

tigger1001 · 10/12/2021 09:25

@HereComesSpringAgain

Exactly!!

Those of us working closely with the public witness this poor behaviour every time

Can't admit to being a saint about masks myself though. ... do we all honestly thoroughly wash our hands before putting one on/off? Sanitise? Not touch our mask/face at all whilst wearing one?

Bet we don't but someone will come along in a minute and say they do I'm sure...

Agree.

I know I constantly fiddle with mine as I can't see. My glasses steam up, especially now weather is colder.

SusieBob · 10/12/2021 09:25

The issue is that for people to become educated about matters like this, it requires subtle, often difficult conversations.

Wheras on the internet the discussion invariable descends into bitching and slagging and all that happens is that existing positions are intrenched and nobody ever, ever changes their mind.

That said, I do think MN moderation is pretty poor and while they are happy to jump on anyone challenging anti-vaxxers the far more dangerous av posts full of information get left up. It's like the laughable attempts the BBC make at "balance".

HereComesSpringAgain · 10/12/2021 09:25

@Whatwouldscullydo

Those of us working closely with the public witness this poor behaviour every time

Ha I work in retail. Just there days ago a customer entered with theor mask across ther forehead. Fiddled with throught theor vist Pulled up pulled down etc

We also have a toilet. I can tell you now that none of the customers are ever in in long enough to have peed and washed their hands. The hand dryer gets used one in 5 visits maybe ( we can hear it) I then have to take money from dry hands...

Even if their mask was sterile ut won't be for long.

Yes retail here too

The public are not doing any good at all. This is why the mask drama is pointless. The public are FILTHY and just play the game to get in and get what they want

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/12/2021 09:26

I didn't make that very clear, the OP there wasn't anti vax but could easily be misinterpreted because there is so much of that on here.

You made it very clear what you thought. Your posts on that thread were ridiculous. It was a thread about maximising vaccine efficacy, but you had to ride your odd hobby horse in.

FestiveMelts · 10/12/2021 09:27

@Caggietambellblack

YABU. God forbid you should see opinions that are different to your own!

People are allowed to express views that may differ from yours. As the poster above said, intolerant censorious people like you frighten me far more than ‘anti vaxxers’ or ‘anti maskers’.

Learn to cope with differences of opinion rather than demanding anyone who thinks differently to you is silenced.

Exactly.

visitingagain · 10/12/2021 09:28

@tigger1001 Biscuit for saying I am scared of debate!! After starting this thread!!!
We are past debating. What is there to debate? Whether we like it or not covid is here to stay and the best thing we can do is try to mitigate against it with the tools we have - vaccines, masks etc. because that's ALL WE HAVE.
It would be great to see everyone getting ffp2 masks free from the government but that's incredibly unlikely. However even a nasty old rag is still more effective than not wearing anything at all.
Also, the Scotland/ England comparison is useless as there are so many variables.
But what can be said is Scotland and Wales have not had to faff about persuading people to put masks back on at a crucial moment when we are seeing pressures on out health services.
"Debate"on this topic is so unhealthy and can become downright dangerous, as someone said there are other topics that get pounced on by MNHQ but why is this one allowed?

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cookiemonster2468 · 10/12/2021 09:29

@visitingagain

I wish it was rebuffed but unfortunately there are threads with over 500 posts where people just pile on when someone quotes facts, and so they give up.
Yep. I feel the same about the anti-trans threads tbh.
Whatwouldscullydo · 10/12/2021 09:30

But only as long as it doesn't have a damaging impact on other people's bodies. This is the central point that the "my body my choice" lobby fails to grasp

But they can. They are. I mean no one else does with anything else do they? Do people never get drunk incase a stranger or even a family member needs a liver ?

Do they turn down drs appointments because someone else needs it more?

No they don't. Because people make decisions based on what's best for them not what might happen to some person they have never met ,

NanFlanders · 10/12/2021 09:34

I couldn't be any more pro-vax, but I'm all in favour of people being able to discuss this on a message board. These ideas are out there, and it's good to counter them. It's a bit different to Facebook, where people are posting very misleading videos by contrarian doctors, link to false info etc.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/12/2021 09:38

I agree. You can't control what other people think, open discussion is all you have.

LakieLady · 10/12/2021 09:40

Anti-vaxxers drive me mad. If they'd been around in 1800, we'd still have people dying of smallpox. Not to mention disabled by polio, dead from measles and damaged by rubella during pregnancy.

ShiftingSands21 · 10/12/2021 09:45

I’m still not sure what sort of “misinformation” we are talking about. Covid is caused by 5G type misinformation, or people suggesting that real world mask effectiveness might be lower than suggested by some types of study? Because only one of those things is actually misinformation. Or is it something in between?

tigger1001 · 10/12/2021 09:46

[quote visitingagain]@tigger1001 Biscuit for saying I am scared of debate!! After starting this thread!!!
We are past debating. What is there to debate? Whether we like it or not covid is here to stay and the best thing we can do is try to mitigate against it with the tools we have - vaccines, masks etc. because that's ALL WE HAVE.
It would be great to see everyone getting ffp2 masks free from the government but that's incredibly unlikely. However even a nasty old rag is still more effective than not wearing anything at all.
Also, the Scotland/ England comparison is useless as there are so many variables.
But what can be said is Scotland and Wales have not had to faff about persuading people to put masks back on at a crucial moment when we are seeing pressures on out health services.
"Debate"on this topic is so unhealthy and can become downright dangerous, as someone said there are other topics that get pounced on by MNHQ but why is this one allowed?[/quote]
You are funny. Not scared of debate, while shutting down others, and then in the same post debate is unhealthy 😂😂😂

If masks were so effective why was England's numbers per 100k the lowest in the uk while they were not wearing masks and the other countries were? It's not a trick question to catch people out or a "gotcha" question. It's genuine. If the different governments were all imposing similar restrictions but with a few noticeable differences then it's right to look at the results of that, and ask why the differences in results.

Do you genuinely think a dirty reused mask is better than nothing? Or does it just make you feel better and or safer if everyone wears them irrespective of how well they are worn? Again, a genuine question. From conversations in real life, it does seem to be that others feel safer rather than it actually being safer. And that deserves conversation. Not to be told your opinion doesn't matter.

And with regards to masks, you can't really expect people to embrace them when the whole messaging at the start was "masks are not effective". People might have known differently, but that was the governments message. And it stuck.

People are so wholeheartedly sick of the flip flop actions of the government, that the effect is no one now believes a word they say. You want to improve mask wearing? Don't restrict debate around it, and look at the governments on messaging throughout this whole thing.

I also include the Scottish governments messaging in that too. We are told to wear masks, social distance, yet our leaders were at cop26 taking every selfie opportunity and not a mask in sight.

Sparklingbrook · 10/12/2021 09:50

So why wonder about people stood observing when it's part of the job

They’ve done away with store marshalls around here. When the numbers going into shops wasn’t restricted any more.
Busy time in retail at the moment ‘m surprised there’s time for mask surveillance too.

Whatwouldscullydo · 10/12/2021 09:54

Busy time in retail at the moment ‘m surprised there’s time for mask surveillance too

There are other reasons to be watching the peope though. Mystery shoppers, thise who need help/assistance, theft, ID/barring purposes etc

Mask is just one part of the responsibility of shop workers

kjdmnbxz54 · 10/12/2021 09:58

@Saucery

And the ridiculous “side effects” posts. I had the first AZ and my ears went hot, my tongue went chartreuse and my leg fell off No. That didn’t happen. Stop telling lies to frighten people.
Ok this makes me angry. People post genuine side effects, and in many cases are genuinely very frightened by what they have been through and they are jumped on, accused of telling lies and scare mongering. I had genuine terrifying side effects, and ended up in A&E with micro clots on the brain. I am still frightened by this and have a lingering worry that although they have now cleared they might return. I also know someone who died from a heart attack on the operating table as the surgeons tried to deal with blood clots. This isn't made up. No doubt someone will come on here and say 'Wow, that's unbelievable' Hmm.

It is acknowledged that there is a risk of blood clots, if you have had the AZ jab as I did you will recall being asked several times to confirm you are ok with that risk, and also you have to sign to say you are ok with it. The risk is small, but if you are the person who forms that small percentage it is little comfort to know that nearly everyone else was fine.

Who are you to declare people's personal experiences misinformation. I am completely neutral with respect to choices other people make, but I won't be getting the booster because I am terrified that next time the micro clot will be a real clot and I'll have a stroke, or a heart attack. I'm double jabbed, I had those jabs as I thought it was the right thing to do at the time.

Saucery · 10/12/2021 10:00

No need to be angry, as I don’t mean the type of side effects you experienced.
Covid also causes blood clots, however, in some people.

JesusSufferingFuck22 · 10/12/2021 10:07

[quote visitingagain]@LittlestLightOnTheXmasTree there really, really is a right and wrong answer to being vaccinated, unless you have an allergy or a serious medical reason, you should be vaccinated.[/quote]
There's a big grey area too. My immune system is messed up. I have MS. I don't react well to medication and didn't react well to the vaccine. I am "double jabbed." I didn't want to get it but felt pressured to. I had barely recovered from the first jab when I got my 2nd. I am not getting the booster. I don't socialise out of the home. I don't go out much at all. Socialising at home is minimal and distanced or outdoor(in warmer weather.) I am low risk for passing the virus on. Does my decision not to get the booster lump me in with the anti vax crowd?

Sparklingbrook · 10/12/2021 10:08

Mask is just one part of the responsibility of shop workers

Most of the people I know that work in retail say they can't intervene if they happen to notice someone isn't wearing a mask. I don't agree it's a 'responsibility' and they shouldn't challenge.

I don't know if this is different for security guards etc, but I guess they have responsibilities to stop theft as a priority. And I don't know if mystery shoppers should be challenging people wearing masks incorrectly.

There was a thread on here asking about the shop owner's responsibilities and the consensus was that as long as they had a sign up and a supply of masks should someone ask there's not much else they can do legally.

visitingagain · 10/12/2021 10:09

@JesusSufferingFuck22 that's not a grey area, have you reported the side effect to the yellow card scheme?

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Whatwouldscullydo · 10/12/2021 10:11

My point was retail staff have to watch customers to an extent regardless of masks. And thats how we notice stuff.

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