A quick and easy way to tidy, which really helps when you’re not feeling it, is to do a quick walk around with a bin bag first of all to gather up any crap straightaway. Throw it out (in other words don’t leave it in the hallway/kitchen/under the stairs/whatever to take out later). Then go around again with another bag or basket to gather up all clutter. You’ll sort it later. Thirdly, gather up all clothing and put it in one pile to be sorted later.
Wipe down any clear counters/surfaces.
You’ll instantly feel much better about your space.
Then sit down with a cup of tea or coffee for a little break.
Go for a walk, even if it’s just 15 min round the block. Only excuse not to is if it’s stormy outside. You
(You can skip the above step if the thought of it makes you feel stressed/upset/overwhelmed.)
If you feel like it, sort through your clothes putting anything that’s clean into one pile and anything that needs washing into another. If you have a basket for your washing put it in there, or if you like you can put a load straight into the machine.
Otherwise, plan to do more tomorrow.
That’s it for today! Enjoy your house that’s much more tidy now than it was a short time ago.
On cosiness and warmth, as others have said, a few small lamps to add low lighting, a fragrance oil/candle, some plants, cushions and a blanket to snuggle up in/under.
Have you got the budget to treat yourself to a few new things as an early Christmas Present? I love my Emma Bridgewater Christmas mug - I use it daily, and every time I do I take a minute to think about how cosy I feel, how peaceful it is, and all the big or small things that make me happy and content. I bought it this year after quite a few years of wanting one. It’s only a little thing but it does make a difference to how I feel. It doesn’t need to be an expensive mug, just one that you love that makes you happy when you use it. It also doesn’t have to be a mug, you could treat yourself to a new book or a notebook or anything else that would feel special to you.