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To ask how focussed you WFH people are today?

158 replies

holymolyguacamoles · 03/12/2021 12:44

Fellow WFH'er here.

Usually quite disciplined with completing tasks and rewarding with mini break but today:

No focus
Lack of concentration
Easily distracted
Loads to do but no motivation to do it

If you're WFH today how focussed are you today? And in general on other days?

OP posts:
stillmorerubbish · 03/12/2021 15:25

@vickyp0llard

OMG, I've met my people! I'm so sick of all the tedious brown-nosers on LinkedIn going on about "oh I'm so much more productive at home, I just can't stop!". Mate, I can't start. A boring job where the only motivation was your colleagues watching your back + being left at home to your own devices = disaster.
This!

I have hated homeworking. My productivity has nose dived.

I was surprised not to be let go before my two years in the job were up I am such a waster. Mind you, I have met all my targets and my standards of work are acceptable, but I know that I am struggling, probably clinically depressed and just coasting rather than actually enjoying my job or giving it anything other than the minimum I have to to stave off being sacked.
Its taken me two days to do something I should have completed in two hours tops. I'm not enjoying doing other stuff. I just read what I have to over and over and it doesn't go in. My concentration is fucked.

NotMyselfWithoutCoffee · 03/12/2021 15:28

Struggling finished all my work.
I've been helping the lowers do menial data entry work... So boring as it's the same thing over and over my mind has gone numb.
Been doing this since 11am, feel like I need a drink. Wine

batmanladybird · 03/12/2021 15:29

This is me

vickyp0llard · 03/12/2021 15:29

Yep I get you. Even when I sit in Teams meetings, unless I'm talking or directly involved, I just mute the meeting and read Reddit/MN instead. In the office I'd be in a meeting room without my laptop, so that wouldn't even be an option.

And people think it's hilarious, like "LOL ideal job, doing nothing all day!" but it slowly leads to depression, and then because you're so depressed you can't muster up any productivity even when you want to. My job flipped after Covid from something I enjoyed into long, tedious "strategic" projects with no training and vague deadlines that keep getting pushed back - the #1 motivation killer. I am moving to a job that is a lot more fast-paced, 2 week projects for external clients and must be 50% in the office. Hopefully that will improve things. Otherwise, off I go into hairdressing/estate agent.....

hivemindneeded · 03/12/2021 15:32

Not focused at all today because I finished current project a day early but have now come down with covid symptoms which means tomorrow's big in-person work meeting needs to be cancelled.

I've spent the day doing bootcamp and putting up Christmas decs.

julieca · 03/12/2021 15:33

I spend my days watching TV and doing Vs at all the fools stuck in the office.

OR

I sit at my laptop and do my work exactly as if I was in the office. And it is much easier without anyone passing by wanting to stop for a chat. Where I am in the office, means that everyone who wants a quick social catch up asks me something work-related, and then tries to chat. I can see from my measured outputs that I am achieving more at home.

julieca · 03/12/2021 15:36

And honestly, I think my line manager is doing fuck all at home. But at work she spent most of her time skiving.

OOAOML · 03/12/2021 15:39

Well I just ugly cried at my desk (WFH bonus no need for tears in the toilets) because I am so fucking tired and angry. They got rid of resource months ago and I'm still wading through tons of work with no help. I have so many people emailing me stuff and I feel minutes away from telling them all to GTF. But at least I'm not in the office trying to concentrate over the Friday chatter and at least we're not having a Christmas night out because in my current mood one sniff of alcohol and I would lose it big time.

I probably need a new job but I am too ground down to look for one just now. At least here I can swear and they don't know.

neverbeenskiing · 03/12/2021 15:45

I've always been very pro-flexible working, especially when it comes to levelling the playing field for women in the workplace, but if I was an employer this thread would make me think twice about allowing staff to WFH. Not just from a productivity point of view, but also due to concern for staff morale and wellbeing as so many posters sound really demoralised and fed up. I WOH and my job is very busy, it involves talking and listening all day which can be really draining, and I was mildly envious of friends who WFH in lockdown and made no secret of the fact that they were enjoying a lie in, watching boxsets and getting on with the gardening/decorating in between keeping an eye on their emails, but clearly the grass isn't always greener. I think I'd enjoy that for a couple of weeks but it wouldn't do my mood any favours in the longer term.

KatherineJaneway · 03/12/2021 15:49

I was not very focussed today, better this afternoon. To be fair I had days like this in the office as well!

theemmadilemma · 03/12/2021 15:57

Not very, but I had my booster jab this morning and its Friday. I had an hour of back to back brief meetings I held this arvo, and now I'm ready to give up for the weekend since there's nothing urgent to be actioned.

julieca · 03/12/2021 16:00

@neverbeenskiing I think wfh suits some people and not others. But I also think in general people are pretty down at the moment with news of the new variant. I just see in lots of people a mild depression at the moment.

Atemyhat · 03/12/2021 16:25

terrible. done sweet fa

thepeopleversuswork · 03/12/2021 17:09

@RobinPenguins

Hmm, a lot of that is choice though. I don’t find I fritter away time chatting and making cups of tea as you describe. I talk to colleagues about non-work related stuff, but not to the detriment of productivity.

It's choice up to a point. In practice if people come up to you and strike up a conversation there's a limit to the amount of times you can cut them dead.

If you're in the office its much easier for people to interrupt you to ask you about things which are frankly not massively important while you're trying to get on with something else.

If someone sends me an email about something related to the Christmas party I can park it and look at it after hours. In the office that same person will wander over to my desk, ask me to look at my calendar and then go on to ask me what I'm wearing and how I'm getting there.

There's also I find a huge amount of questions in organisations which are directed at the wrong person. Four or five times a day someone will ask me about something which I have no knowledge of whatsoever. It's easy via email to say "nope, sorry, ask xxx". In an office, again, this become a preamble for a chat about something else.

In themselves these interactions are all fairly short but they all add up.

And in practice it's quite difficult to cut all of that off and say you have work to do without getting a reputation for being aloof and rude.

Belledan1 · 03/12/2021 18:14

I had no motivation either. I went for a bath at 3 then logged back on and did some simple work. Felt more relaxed. I probably do an hour the weekend as not a lot on to make up for it

julieca · 03/12/2021 18:17

Those that have no motivation - dont people realise you are not doing any work?
I do wonder at some jobs people have. I have tasks every day that need to be completed. It wouldn't take long for someone to notice if I was doing nothing.
@thepeopleversuswork - exactly! I am a low paid worker. The worst is getting senior staff who just want to chat. I can try and say drop hints, but I cant tell them to go away, or even worse, get to the point. Its way better remotely.

BoredZelda · 03/12/2021 18:19

I'm self employed. I don't have the luxury of being unproductive.

Oh give over with this pious nonsense.

Nobody is 100% productive 100% of the time. My sister runs her own really successful business, and just yesterday she was lamenting how unproductive her day was because of half a dozen things all outwith her control.

The clients I work for are my company’s biggest and are really demanding. If I didn’t deliver and they binned us, it would mean the loss of hundreds of thousands of pounds in fees a year. I still manage to deliver a service without being 100% productive all of the time.

ChardonnaysPetDragon · 03/12/2021 18:22

Oh give over with this pious nonsense.

Pious? Really? Do you even know what that means?

When I work I am 100% productive, otherwise I wouldn't be able to do my job. It's as simple as that.

Coffeepot72 · 03/12/2021 18:56

I definitely get more done on my WFH days, less distractions. But I like my 2 days per week in the office to see my colleagues. Hybrid is working well for me.

vickyp0llard · 03/12/2021 19:40

Those that have no motivation - dont people realise you are not doing any work?

Nope. You can do it slowly, say it was difficult, say you don't know how to do it and give it to someone else, say you've done it when you haven't (buying you some more time to do it before you have to present it). If you are working on projects A and B, you can tell project A stakeholders you couldn't work on it this year because of project B, and vice versa.

If you get a certain percentage of your tasks done, and urgent daily tasks done, you can slip under the radar with other tasks.

This sounds awful.....no I don't feel good about it whatsoever.....yes I am changing job/career.....

vickyp0llard · 03/12/2021 19:40

*this week.

And the things you have done, in weekly standups you can drag them out and overcomplicate them to make it sound like it was much more than it was.

KirstenBlest · 03/12/2021 19:43

I wfh and usually am motivated but keep track of my work.
Still working now because I want to reach a certain point today

DriftingBlue · 03/12/2021 19:46

I’m always very focused wfh, but I am exclusively wfh and have been for 13 years.

It’s the extremely rare days in the office that I accomplish absolutely nothing. I try to focus on my work, but all I can think about is how awful it is to be around other people.

hivemindneeded · 03/12/2021 19:46

When I work I am 100% productive, otherwise I wouldn't be able to do my job. It's as simple as that.

Me too. But it doesn't follow a 9-5 pattern. I've nothing nothing all day. But yesterday I started work at 7.45am and was still sending work emails at 11pm. Happily busy all day long, fully absorbed in work. Then today I felt zonked and did nothing. For me, that's the massive pleasure of working from home and being self-employed. I get to set the hours.

KirstenBlest · 03/12/2021 19:49

You can tell if someone isn't pulling their weight