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To not display a photograph of my rapist in my home

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FreedomAnniversary · 27/11/2021 22:24

I have been told off in court by a NYAS barrister because I do not have a picture of my ex husband in my home. This is a person who has raped me, hit my while I was holding my newborn and also put his hand on my throat and threatened me.

NYAS have accused me of not encouraging the relationship with their father on purely that basis.

Am I being unreasonable to not have a picture of my abuser in my home?

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FreedomAnniversary · 06/02/2022 19:16

@stripeyflowers

Words fail me.
Me too. I cannot believe that my 5 year old clearly said he saw my ex hit me and didn't want to see daddy, and she's saying that he does want to see him and was happy about it. He was not, he became withdrawn and refused to talk to her.

What was the point of meeting them if she was just going to lie about what they said.

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