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Alice Evans on Lorraine

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Creamcrackersandricecakes · 11/11/2021 09:32

This poor woman is clearly in the middle of the most horrendous breakdown - who the fuck thought this interview was a good idea?

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Newrunner29 · 18/11/2021 21:00

@Onthedunes

Yes, God forbid the laws of social media are breached but not the laws of marriage.

Back to reality, he abandoned his young family and cheated on Alice.

But where is this information from? How has he abandoned his young family? And to be 100% how to b completely know 100% he cheated?
WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps · 18/11/2021 21:02

@Onthedunes

Yes, God forbid the laws of social media are breached but not the laws of marriage.

Back to reality, he abandoned his young family and cheated on Alice.

How do you know he cheated? And he's broken up with his wife, not his children.
Newrunner29 · 18/11/2021 21:02

Im confused how people form opnions on no actual facts just one very bias and obviously going go be rightly or wrongly view. We have no idea what he has or hasnt done, how much hes tried to make it as painfree as possible how contact hes had with his children. We have no idea

WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps · 18/11/2021 21:03

Im confused how people form opnions on no actual facts

Spend 10 minutes on Alice's Twitter.

Newrunner29 · 18/11/2021 21:07

@WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps

Im confused how people form opnions on no actual facts

Spend 10 minutes on Alice's Twitter.

Well yes i guess confused isnt the word. Its more baffling like surely critial thinking will show surely one side is not going to b whole truth somewhere in middle maybe . Also the pain he did or didn't cause by marriage breakdown is not even relevant to what she is currently doing? Yes of course this kinda trauma can cause not thinking straight but where is the line?
Newrunner29 · 18/11/2021 21:09

I think ultimately people project their own hurt and trauma and then they dont consider the abusive stuff happening now.

WalkersAreNotTheOnlyCrisps · 18/11/2021 21:09

Yes, some people (on here and social media) seem to have wholly taken Alice's "side" and believe her version of events. I've read her lies and conjecture with my own eyes though 🤷🏼‍♀️

Bluntness100 · 18/11/2021 21:10

@Onthedunes

Yes, God forbid the laws of social media are breached but not the laws of marriage.

Back to reality, he abandoned his young family and cheated on Alice.

Really ? That’s news to us, even to Alice, can you provide the evidence? Becayse eve Alice is open that she has none, and as he’s in there fighting for full custody can you tell us how he abandoned his kids?
Bluntness100 · 18/11/2021 21:37

Oh dear

For the nanny to have to testify there was no physical or mental abuse from Alice it means that’s the accusation she is facing, that she physically and mentally abused him. I doubt ver much the nanny is going to testify loan was physically and mentally abusing Alice.

What a sad situation for the poor nanny,

Alice Evans on Lorraine
KosherDill · 18/11/2021 21:49

@Glassofshloer

he had to be aware of the massive downside risk, if she's always this volatile.

Kosher, if the sexes were reversed, how would that sound? Do you usually victim blame, say they shouldn’t have enraged their aggressor?

I do not see him as a victim.

LizzieSiddal · 18/11/2021 22:01

Back to reality, he abandoned his young family and cheated on Alice.

Are you for real? He filed for divorce in March, they are separated.

Cocolapew · 18/11/2021 22:11

Her Twitter bio has been changed again, very moderate this time Hmm

IhateBoswell · 18/11/2021 22:13

Bio changed but still the same spite. I wonder why on earth Ioan doesn't want to speak to her? 🤔

Alice Evans on Lorraine
Cocolapew · 18/11/2021 22:22

Oh I'd thought she'd turned over a new leaf Hmm

amiafreakofnature · 18/11/2021 22:28

[quote Onthedunes]@amiafreakofnature

Why thank you, because I choose to support women who have been through betrayal does that make me unhinged?

I support the underdog, the oppressed and the very women who are going through the hell that Alice is going through, whist at the same time being condemmed by small minded people who have no concept of the pain involved.

You just enjoy being rude.
Fair play if that's your type of personality.[/quote]
AE is no underdog in any way shape or form. You project your own experiences in every single thread like this. The man who leaves his family is always in the wrong to you. No matter how he did it when he did it it's always woe is the poor woman. I've yet to see you wade into a thread where a woman has fell out of love and wants to leave saying she's all sorts of terrible

Onthedunes · 18/11/2021 22:39

Yes I believe women are oppressed more than men.

So.

Butchyrestingface · 18/11/2021 22:48

She could run him through with a steak knife and there'll still be people lining up to defend her.

Mind boggling.

amiafreakofnature · 18/11/2021 22:49

@Butchyrestingface

She could run him through with a steak knife and there'll still be people lining up to defend her.

Mind boggling.

Absolutely Because the absolute worst think a man can do is leave an unhappy marriage
amiafreakofnature · 18/11/2021 22:50

*thing

bigbeatmanifesto · 18/11/2021 22:57

The stories I've read on here of men making out their ex wives are crazy on the verge of psychotic makes me believe there's alot more to her story and she's not as nuts as everyone wants her to be, so she's doing it in the open air of social media? That's just the way things are now people tell the world their grievances wether for sympathy or clarity she's getting it off her chest, if it was hidden away and she came forward years later people would call her a liar for not saying anything sooner, you can't win anymore.
No I'm not defending her I'm just saying no one knows what goes on behind closed doors and all that.

Nicknacky · 18/11/2021 22:59

@bigbeatmanifesto Have you read her Twitter?

Againstmachine · 18/11/2021 23:34

*Yes I believe women are oppressed more than men.

So.*

Because you are posting things as facts that you have no idea that are true, as are making stuff up to suit your agenda.

That doesn't help anyone opressed.

sarah13xx · 19/11/2021 00:04

She’s definitely doing herself no favours now. Gone from the victim to now just attacking random people who have nothing to do with her husband or Bianca. All for speaking out if someone’s done you wrong but she could have told her story and put the information out there in an interview without going on the rampage on social media daily

Onthedunes · 19/11/2021 00:07

@Againstmachine

*Yes I believe women are oppressed more than men.

So.*

Because you are posting things as facts that you have no idea that are true, as are making stuff up to suit your agenda.

That doesn't help anyone opressed.

Am I ?

So everyone who is supporting Ioan on here knows exactly whats gone on in their marriage.

I think Alice is a little more qualified to know that. Oh but by Ioan's stonewalling of her for over a year makes him the resonable one? the dignified silence bollocks.

He's acted very cruelly to Alice, absolutely driven her to despair, she's not a strong woman, she's clinging on for life.

amiafreakofnature · 19/11/2021 00:11

Ahh there goes that projection again