I am in my mid 40's and for the past year, have been working as a manager of a charity shop earning pennies above the NMW. It is by far the most physically demanding job I have ever had, and also, relatively, the lowest paid by a long way. I am well educated, with a degree that I supported myself through in my early 20's. I have over 20 years experience in the pharmaceutical industry, working in various roles, including supervisory and middle management, on decent salaries. However, with the exception of one of these jobs (which ended through redundancy due to my department being closed down and responsibility being transferred to the U.S team), I have never found the fulfilment and enjoyment I desired.
Over the past couple of years, I have experienced significant personal issues, including the sudden passing of my mother and a second unexpected bereavement of a very close friend, that have made me question what life means to me, and what my priorities are with regards to my work.
I can honestly say that my career change has been one of the best things I've ever done. Yes, my wage has decreased significantly, and I know I'm extremely fortunate that I'm able to take that hit as DH has a decent salary........and I am physically exhausted most evenings (although, looking at the positives, I definitely get my 10,000+ steps in every day, and it could be viewed as being daily exercise that I didn't get in previous positions, so it has positively increased my activity levels). However, from a mental health perspective, I now feel so much better about myself, which has a positive knock on my family. I know that I'm doing something that helps other people and am giving something back and doing something truly worthwhile. The job is such hard work and you have to manage volunteers who can let you down at the last minute, leaving you to run the shop on your own, customers who are largely lovely and wonderful people, but who can really test your patience, and donations that can vary from being high quality designer items, to rubbish that just goes straight into the bin, but you just don't know what each day will bring, and I love that aspect of it.
So, what I'm trying to say, is that, to me, WHAT you do and your own enjoyment of what you do is more important than the status of being in a high earning career. Just because a role is NMW does NOT mean that the individual is someone to be looked down on or ridiculed...... some of us actively choose these roles and are happy to do so. You don't go into charity work for the money....... if that motivates you, then you need to better yourself, whether that be through education or experience, in order to get a job that is better renumerated. Again, I know that I am very lucky to be able to choose a low paid role, but not everyone who does one does so because they have no choice.