To think my dh's slobbish ways are grounds for divorce(rant alert).

[milkymill]

These things which are so facking insignificant to him are driving me nuts!!
Clothes, towels always left all over the bathroom floor and never picked up. Okay he does his fair share of washing dishes and cooking but outright refuses to ever wipe a work surface after he's used it, or even put rubbish in the bin. I mean - how much effort does it actually take to open a bin rather than leaving it on the kitchen counter!

The man is a complete slob. He's currently in the garden 'making something' out of wood ; and I've just had to tell him off for chucking old nails near on to the lawn edges!! How stupid can you be ffs, we have 2 children .

[takes deep breaths] I'm seriously considering becoming a lesbian; surely no woman could ever be this bad?

My partner works about 60 hours and I work about 20 and we have some cleaning help - which I am about to increase (I only started work again a month ago). I don't really expect my partner to do much in the way of chores - he works a lot, earns a lot and is jolly tired when he comes home. But he doesn't mind paying for help, so that seems fair. And he isn't a slob.

Each situation is so different...