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Would you commit to this wedding?

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weddingguestdec · 12/10/2021 20:56

Invited to a wedding early December.

Requires an overnight stay as it's in the grooms home town.

I can't see it happening Covid wise.

Don't want to book a hotel or lose any money. But tempted to just say I'm going safe in the knowledge numbers would get cut / cancelled completely.

AIBU to think it won't go ahead?

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CornishGem1975 · 15/10/2021 16:42

@weddingguestdec I don't think you'll be the only one with concerns - and it's fine to have them given the situation, but just be straight up and honest with the couple that's all I would say.

weddingguestdec · 19/10/2021 17:14

Well I booked. Seems to have jinxed it as it's s going tits up now. Feel awful for the couple. Really can't see it going ahead now.

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Alconleigh · 19/10/2021 17:17

There's still no sign of further restrictions though, despite high numbers is there, unless I've missed a headline today?
I went to a gig with 1600 other people on Saturday night........stuff is happening.

weddingguestdec · 19/10/2021 17:19

@Alconleigh just scaremongering about new variants, plan b, NHS being overwhelmed, deaths are the highest for 7 months.

Planting the seeds for us to accept restrictions soon I imagine. Christ I hate this government.

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Alconleigh · 19/10/2021 17:23

Cases and deaths are higher but most people are vaccinated. I know loads of people who have had it recently / right now, including some who were considered clinically vulnerable in the first lockdowns, and they've all had cold / flu type symptoms and then recovered well. I can't see how that translates into more restrictions. Unless we really get eg a variant which is totally resistant to the vaccines.

ChatterMonkey · 19/10/2021 17:31

You really do go to worst case scenario instantly dont you??

weddingguestdec · 19/10/2021 17:35

@ChatterMonkey I do yes. I should probably stop reading the news (and MN Covid section) it's seriously depressing

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weddingguestdec · 03/11/2021 17:30

What's the consensus on this now?

I bought an outfit etc and booked the hotel. Hoping for the couple it is all OK!

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Alconleigh · 03/11/2021 17:35

Still fine! Unless it's in Morocco!

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