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I really want to shout out to my fiancé how beautiful my wedding dress is

144 replies

Winterismyfavourite · 07/10/2021 19:55

BUT I CANT!!! So can we all please appreciate its beautiful ness on here :) I love the button detail down the back

But Please tell me if I’m being unreasonable in posting this in the AIBU page ..

I really want to shout out to my fiancé how beautiful my wedding dress is
I really want to shout out to my fiancé how beautiful my wedding dress is
OP posts:
MobyDicksTinyCanoe · 07/10/2021 21:39

Aww it's absolutely stunning.

DarlingFell · 07/10/2021 21:42

@Shirleyphallus

But then, when she'd finished laughing at you, my 15 yo turned pensive for a moment: "Mum, there must be something in Novice's background that has given her a huge amount of insecurity...it's probably not her fault that she isn't classy enough to understand how to act in different social situations...or maybe doesn't have enough education to realise that the internet is still a 'social situation' for all right-minded people, albeit on a massive scale"

As if this happened GrinGrin

@KazenoTaninoNaushika cool story bro
HollowTalk · 07/10/2021 21:47

My daughter-in-law lasted 15 minutes before she showed my son her dress!

HollowTalk · 07/10/2021 21:48

And the dress is gorgeous!

WhatAShilohPitt · 07/10/2021 21:49

There are some right nasty bastards on here! I am glad you like your dress OP.

1309username · 07/10/2021 22:06

I love the back too, it’s gorgeous

feelingfree17 · 07/10/2021 22:08

Oh how absolutely stunning. How exciting for you. May will soon be here. Have a wonderful day and life together. Would love to see a wedding pic if you feel comfortable to post

JapanJetplane · 07/10/2021 22:10

It’s divine! I love the buttons and the straps are so pretty 😍

impossible · 07/10/2021 22:10

It's very beautiful. Great choice!

JapanJetplane · 07/10/2021 22:12

@StarryStarrySocks

It's AIBU, are we all supposed to agree that a fairly average wedding dress is "OMG so stunning!" just because the OP wants us to? Hmm
Just imagine for a moment what it must be like to be this much of a prick Grin
AlexaShutUp · 07/10/2021 22:18

Surely if you don't like it, the decent thing is just to close the thread and move on. You don't have to rain on someone's parade.

The OP is excited about the beautiful dress that she has chosen with great care. Let her enjoy it and keep the snarky comments to yourself. FFS!

Dfhugdhvdnjrs · 07/10/2021 22:20

Lovely shape. Congratulations OP and ignore the toxic ransoms.

Dfhugdhvdnjrs · 07/10/2021 22:21

Randoms

Dora33 · 07/10/2021 22:21

The front of the dress has a nice fit but the train at the back looks odd. Would flow better if it started a bit lower.

Glassofshloer · 07/10/2021 22:24

@AlexaShutUp

Surely if you don't like it, the decent thing is just to close the thread and move on. You don't have to rain on someone's parade.

The OP is excited about the beautiful dress that she has chosen with great care. Let her enjoy it and keep the snarky comments to yourself. FFS!

Can you imagine the comments they would post under an ‘AIBU to show off my gorgeous newborn’ thread?

‘YABU. Your newborn is very average looking, and would be cuter with more hair. But what matters is that you think he is cute.’

I mean talk about killing the buzz 🙄

PurpleFlower1983 · 07/10/2021 22:25

It’s beautiful OP! I wish I had the figure to carry something like that off!! Grin

BathroomWindow · 07/10/2021 22:32

That is one fabulous dress Op. You're going to look stunning.

Inastatus · 07/10/2021 22:38

@sparepantsandtoothbrush

This board really does highlight who the playground bitches were doesn't it! If you've got nothing nice to say to a bride to be who's clearly very excited and wanting to share her wedding dress then just scroll past. What joy do you get from purposely trying to knock her down? Miserable fuckers

OP your dress is gorgeous. I wish I had the figure (and age on my side!) to pull it off Grin

Agreed @sparepantsandtoothbrush - there’s some sad bitter people around. OP it’s a truly gorgeous dress.
quietlyspoken08 · 07/10/2021 22:41

Absolutely beautiful. Hope you have an amazing day ThanksThanks

CatWithARabbit · 07/10/2021 22:44

Beautiful dress !!! Enjoy every moment wearing it

flippertyop · 07/10/2021 22:56

Not my cup of tea but as long as you live it that's what counts

thequeenoftarts · 07/10/2021 23:28

awww your dress is stunning, you will be so beautiful in it. Your groom will love you in it

jesusmaryjosephandtheweedonkey · 07/10/2021 23:30

Jesus Christ.., some people on here can really suck the joy out of anything.
Hope people are more polite and positive to anyone you know sharing happy news.

Op your dress is stunning. You will look beautiful.
Have a fabulous day

DuckbilledSplatterPuff · 08/10/2021 00:47

Its beautiful. Hope you have a great day in May

FrozenoutofCostco · 08/10/2021 00:48

It's not my style OP but it's very nice. Unsure why you posted this though? Are you actually unsure & trying to gauge responses?

Wedding dresses are so broadly unique & subjective. Every single one will have those who adore it, alongside those who dislike it.
Yet any posters on here who say they dislike yours are undoubtedly going to get piled on. Meaning you won't get a true reflection of the majority of opinions, just a load of people who love it. Ultimately though, all that matters is what YOU think Wine Congrats!

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