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I really want to shout out to my fiancé how beautiful my wedding dress is

144 replies

Winterismyfavourite · 07/10/2021 19:55

BUT I CANT!!! So can we all please appreciate its beautiful ness on here :) I love the button detail down the back

But Please tell me if I’m being unreasonable in posting this in the AIBU page ..

I really want to shout out to my fiancé how beautiful my wedding dress is
I really want to shout out to my fiancé how beautiful my wedding dress is
OP posts:
BlameItOnTheBlackStar · 07/10/2021 20:12

@DappledThings

Fucking hell, couldn't you just have shut up and moved along to another thread?

You'd not have the balls to say that to someone in real life so maybe treat people online with the same courtesy.

She has a point though. And admitted it might just be her taste but the observations were astute I think.

No, the thread wasn't 'critique my dress please'
StarryStarrySocks · 07/10/2021 20:12

It's AIBU, are we all supposed to agree that a fairly average wedding dress is "OMG so stunning!" just because the OP wants us to? Hmm

Winterismyfavourite · 07/10/2021 20:12

Thanks so much to everyone’s lovely comments .

OP posts:
Shirleyphallus · 07/10/2021 20:13

Really misread the title and thought this was a person posting a pic of their fiancé to shout at how beautiful they were. Saw the pic of the model and thought “you liar”

It’s a beautiful dress OP, as is the other one posted on this thread

S&B board might get some nicer replies tho

Winterismyfavourite · 07/10/2021 20:13

@StarryStarrySocks

It's AIBU, are we all supposed to agree that a fairly average wedding dress is "OMG so stunning!" just because the OP wants us to? Hmm
You didn’t have to comment :)
OP posts:
Glassofshloer · 07/10/2021 20:13

@DappledThings I posted a link up thread..

WirKindervomBahnhofZoo · 07/10/2021 20:13

No you are not being unreasonable, it's absolutely gorgeous.

44PumpLane · 07/10/2021 20:13

@Winterismyfavourite I love that quote Grin definitely at the hips not the tits (I def had mine nearer the tits)!

@Feelslikealot 100% accurate... I wish someone had told me this before my wedding too! Blush

DappledThings · 07/10/2021 20:14

No, the thread wasn't 'critique my dress please'
I'm pretty sure anyone who has been on MN for more than a day would realise posting a picture of a dress in AIBU is very much inviting criticism.

Slagertha · 07/10/2021 20:14

Stunning 😍

Robertthebrucesthistle · 07/10/2021 20:15

Ignore the miserable posters OP the dress is stunning and it’s lovely to hear someone so happy.

MyPatronusIsACat · 07/10/2021 20:17

Ooooh dats PURRRRDEEEE! Grin Love it @Winterismyfavourite

KarlUrbansWife · 07/10/2021 20:18

It's beautiful! I bet it looks stunning on too 😍
You enjoy every moment of the build up to the wedding.
All the best!

SecretSpAD · 07/10/2021 20:20

It's beautiful. The top and the bottom and your fiancé is going to have his mind blown 💕

Flowiththego · 07/10/2021 20:21

It's gorgeous! You can't show him though.

PingoPingoPingoPingoPingoPong · 07/10/2021 20:21

@Glassofshloer

Do mine, *@NoviceNewMN* Grin I’m quite interested in your brutal yet honest opinion!
I'll do yours Stunning No she doesn't @DappledThings, it's rude and unkind, just don't comment
MushMonster · 07/10/2021 20:22

It is really gorgeous OP!
How long do you have to wait till you wear it?

sparepantsandtoothbrush · 07/10/2021 20:24

This board really does highlight who the playground bitches were doesn't it! If you've got nothing nice to say to a bride to be who's clearly very excited and wanting to share her wedding dress then just scroll past. What joy do you get from purposely trying to knock her down? Miserable fuckers

OP your dress is gorgeous. I wish I had the figure (and age on my side!) to pull it off Grin

Speakuptomakeyourselfheard · 07/10/2021 20:25

I think the reason to hold the bouquet lower is that if you hold it under your boobs, it looks like you're trying to hide a pregnancy, which they often used to do for 'shotgun weddings'.

Absolutely LOVE the dress OP, only wish I had the figure to wear one like that these days, although I think I looked pretty good on my own 'big day'. Enjoy the buildup, enjoy your day, but please be mindful that you don't become a wedding bore or worse a 'Bridezilla'!

Seesawmummadaw · 07/10/2021 20:26

Beautiful. I love the detailing.

Winterismyfavourite · 07/10/2021 20:26

@MushMonster

It is really gorgeous OP! How long do you have to wait till you wear it?
Thanks lovely, our day is in May next year
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godmum56 · 07/10/2021 20:26

mermaid fabulousness. I wish you both every happiness

ladymuck111 · 07/10/2021 20:26

It is stunning.

But YABVVU because I'll never get to wear anything like that or be slim enough to!!

SmileySandwich · 07/10/2021 20:26

I like the buttons, they are cute. It would look silly on me but the model looks lovely in it. I hope you have a lovely day in it and it brings you joy.

Flobbertybillop · 07/10/2021 20:27

It’s stunning, I love it!
Ignore the haters, nothing better to do obviously.

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