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To think this guy leaving me money is so strange?

428 replies

brooksandvicki · 27/09/2021 17:32

Was out last night and met a guy, brought him home and had a one night stand. Had a good night and he left this morning, I then went to work. When I got home I noticed there is a twenty pound note on the side he was 'sleeping'. He obviously does not think I'm a prostitute but why in the hell would he leave that?

AIBU to think this is very very strange?

OP posts:
HalzTangz · 27/09/2021 21:11

It didn't fall out of his pocket, he put it on the bedside table

flyingsauces · 27/09/2021 21:12

Send him a message and ask him if he got the £20 you left for him....

SecretKeeper1 · 27/09/2021 21:13

OP did you reply to him? If not, may I suggest “it’s £50 next time”

grapewine · 27/09/2021 21:16

@lsjdkviwworin

Heaven forbid people can have no strings, protected sex
... and fun! Sex is fun. But heaven forbid we are honest about thinking that.
sol5 · 27/09/2021 21:16

OP are you going to text him or not?

SecretKeeper1 · 27/09/2021 21:18

@sol5

OP are you going to text him or not?
See under the OP’s first post (or indeed any of her posts) where it says “see all”? Click on that.
sol5 · 27/09/2021 21:23

Thanks SecretKeeper1. Sorry, just had a glass of wine.

SecretKeeper1 · 27/09/2021 21:26

@sol5

Thanks SecretKeeper1. Sorry, just had a glass of wine.
Steady on, it’s a school night! Big you’re not careful you’ll wake up with damp sheets and a crisp twenty Grin
SecretKeeper1 · 27/09/2021 21:30

*If, not big.

FourteenSixteenTwentyTwo · 27/09/2021 21:31

@SecretKeeper1

Winnie, if you can unclutch your pearls for a moment you might be able to get that stick out of your arse.
To be fair to Winnie, I wouldn’t want a ONS and have to explain the stick shoved up there either.

For the rest of us though, it’s much easier to just have fun and do as we please.

XingMing · 27/09/2021 21:47

ONS were fun when I was young and not looking for forever. Had several. I was free, but never cheap. And that doesn't mean I needed paying for either. Sadly, I don't think young women have the same freedom now.

Wandawide · 27/09/2021 21:59

It seems I have led a more sheltered life than I thought, but can't stop myself asking......How much would a man pay for a shag? An all-night session must be a lot?
Does any one just happen to know?

Theendoftheworldisnigh · 27/09/2021 22:02

I've done a search and apparently prostitutes earn about £30K a year, based on working 10 hours a week,

SecretKeeper1 · 27/09/2021 22:03

@Wandawide

It seems I have led a more sheltered life than I thought, but can't stop myself asking......How much would a man pay for a shag? An all-night session must be a lot? Does any one just happen to know?
Someone upthread said it’s £600-£1000 for an all nighter. So a few of us are quitting our nice proper jobs tomorrow.
DroopyClematis · 27/09/2021 22:06

Maybe he thought you were a great one night stand and left a tip?😐

Wandawide · 27/09/2021 22:13

Gosh!
The violence and strange demands though......
Remain a Corinthian I think
Thanks for info.

RoseChampagne · 27/09/2021 22:17

I am sure there is a reason, if it was me I would call and casually ask, if not for you own sanity and to know whether or not to persue it? I used to always thing the worst of people but sometimes there is a perfectly valid reason :)

Justmuddlingalong · 27/09/2021 22:22

The perfectly valid reason was given in a WhatsApp message.

Wandawide · 27/09/2021 22:22

@brooksandvicki
Pleased you enjoyed the sex and enjoyed getting yourself 'back in the game'.
Reminder to us all to remember to have fun. in whatever way we chose.

lalafafa · 27/09/2021 22:35

aww, well done OP, 2 years without sex is a proper famine. Pleased you had fun.

KissedintheDark · 27/09/2021 22:35

@WeepingWinnie

Slightly off topic, but why would anyone, ever, have a ONS?
For the occasional £20 that's left on the bedside table. Wink
EarthSight · 27/09/2021 22:35

@QueenoftheKarens

He definitely thinks your a prostitute, sorry.
Yes I'd say so too! Grim!
FrozenoutofCostco · 27/09/2021 22:39

@brooksandvicki It's been 5 years for me!! 😳

KissedintheDark · 27/09/2021 22:43

[quote FrozenoutofCostco]@brooksandvicki It's been 5 years for me!! 😳[/quote]
You should ask OP for the blokes number. Smile

ooft · 27/09/2021 22:46

@KissedintheDark GrinGrinGrin