@Sarahlou63
I am
really not having a go but
I wouldn’t be able to stick to it. If I try, eventually my body, thorough cravings, will force me to eat more.
Your body will not force you to eat more, nor will it decide that you will eat junk food. You consciously make that decision at every meal. If someone put a bar of chocolate and and apple in front of you, it is your choice which to eat. Unless you start taking personal responsibility to eat a nutritious, balanced diet any and every weight loss program will fail.
This is the boiling down of the misunderstanding. This is exactly why people lose weight and then put it back on again. Because they don't understand that what you eat now will dictate to your body what to tell you to eat later.
Hormones in the body do pretty much force us to eat more, just like they force us to stay at the right temperature, force us to eliminate pee, force us to feel anxious when public speaking. If you think it's so easy to over ride hormonal decisions your body makes, then you try to 'be too cold' at will, or not pee, or not feel anxious. You'll find that what you need to do is to create the right conditions for your body. You can't just decide not to do these things. You have to stand in the walk in fridge, or stop drinking for a while, or choose not to speak in public.
The decision to eat the chocolate bar is a bad decision, yes, but the bit we're not taught is that it's a bad decision for the whole day. That sugar in your morning coffee will create a hormonal environment that's as irresistible jumping when there's a loud bang. It's an environment where the body says 'Hey, we've got sugar, we can live on that all day, keep eating it!'
The decision to eat the chocolate is not just to do with 'self control' and 'not getting fat'. It's often about responding to our minds having been manipulated by advertising, and being part of a group (go on, Janice, one biscuit won't do you any harm!), it's about habit, it's about rewarding ourselves, it's about financial choices, it's about convenience, it's a much much bigger picture than just 'Not for me, thanks, I'm trying to lose weight.'
If you really think it's as simple as just making a decision and following through, why do you think there are so many highly respected, highly qualified, determined, usually self controlled, disciplined people who nail almost everything in their lives, and yet they can't nail this? Your argument doesn't stand.