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About the level of fear over returning to the office?

228 replies

Hilyie · 25/09/2021 17:47

We all currently WFH, our employer has said that this is the way forward, and we won't go back to working even weekly in the office - indeed we can't as our building has been partly sold off so there's only room for a limited number at any one time . The suggestion by our organisation is that within our teams and workgroups we try to attend the office 'a few times a year'. Apparently the ideal is once a month but there's no hard and fast rules.

As a department, we're currently trying to make arrangements to get people in the office a couple of times before the end of the year. But the level of anxiety is unbelievable.

Most people are vaccinated (personally I'm not, but the majority are), under 50, and with no underlying health conditions, not carers for those who are high risk etc. Very few have had Covid (that they know of)

Yet so far we've had some refusing outright to come in at all because they don't feel safe, others saying they would come to the office but refuse to use public transport as it's too dangerous, some saying they would come in if everyone had done a LFT beforehand (this is not required by our employer, though they are doing other checks) some saying they'll come in but want to sit 2m apart from anyone and if we get together for a meeting insist on everyone wearing masks or that we'll have to sit outside. Someone else wants to go home at lunch because 'its not safe to eat in the office' and so on. There are probably even more examples of what people won't do.

These people all worked side by side 18 months ago, ate lunch at their desks, chatted by the water cooler etc, all very normal. Yet now it feels like they're scared to leave the house.

Are we just unlucky or are other people this concerned? It feels like any semblance of our work environment will never return!

OP posts:
Waxonwaxoff0 · 26/09/2021 13:56

@walksen

"Interesting that you think adults should try and avoid getting Covid but are happy for non vaccinated (kids) to get it to help with immunity".

To be fair this does seem to be the government's approach and a lot of parents too on the grounds that most kids don't get Ill and natural immunity is apparently superior to the vaccine. There are crowds of people outside some schools with signs saying so...

Yes, those people outside the schools though don't believe adults are at risk either as most of them are conspiracy theorists.
itsgettingwierd · 26/09/2021 15:31

I think for those who've WFH their is a higher general fear.

For those who have worked (for example) in factories, schools, hospitals and shops they've been out and about the whole way through. They know how bad covid can be but also can risk assess it better because they've been around it and extremely exposed.

I don't know what the answer is though!

User135644 · 26/09/2021 16:55

@TheKeatingFive

The issue for the OP’s workplace is resentment building as most go in and some continue to hold out.

Especially as the ask isn’t onerous.

If they're given the option, why should they go back? I wouldn't.

If their employers want and request them back in the office and they refuse, then it's a disciplinary issue.

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