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...to still fancy my first boyfriend?!

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:28

I just googled him. he is very beautiful. Successful, educated, well the list goes on.

Aggggghhhhhh

It was about 15 years ago...

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3Ddonut · 02/12/2007 17:28

You've got rose tinted glasses on.

Camillathechicken · 02/12/2007 17:29

of course you can still fancy him... and fantasise and romanticise, but you are a very different woman to who you were 15 years ago....

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:34

Can I link on here? It's a biog page and has a photo, name etc. not sure if I'm allowed to do that?

Yes, rose tinted glasses I suppose...

We are both very different I imagine!

Just can't get over how lovely he still looks!
Awwwwww

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Camillathechicken · 02/12/2007 17:36

hell , yeah!

found an old flame on facebook.. he was a lot better then ! mind you, he would say that about me , no doubt!! eeeeek!

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:38

Drrrreamboat

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Camillathechicken · 02/12/2007 17:39

erm, he could have smiled

Carmenere · 02/12/2007 17:39

cute, is he single?

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:41

No idea....he came to visit about 2 years ago at Xmas, we did kiss and then he said he was in love with someone at Uni.

Ok, bit rude really but it doesn't put me off for some reason!

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:41

Yeah he could have smiled!!!! Keep it up Lulu it's working

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Camillathechicken · 02/12/2007 17:42

how old is he?

Camillathechicken · 02/12/2007 17:42

his carefully arranged fringe is also bothering me... and the teeny tiny amount of designer stubble

is that helping???

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:43

He'll be hmmm....lets see...31 1/2 now. I'm older

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:43

Yes helping!

I am so at the mercy of my hormones!!!!

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Camillathechicken · 02/12/2007 17:44

LOL ! what does he do? apart from study and look soulful?

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:44

He's very grauniad isn't he...

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:46

erm...he was always into music in a big way. Tight jeans and floppy fringes wayyyy before his time. I was in lurrrrve.....

I think he probably has pretentious dinner parties?

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francagoestohollywood · 02/12/2007 17:46

lol at looking soulful . that mouth is not to trust fa

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:47

ha ha

no you're right!

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Camillathechicken · 02/12/2007 17:48

he is doing the same as he was doing 15 years ago, no? so , no personal growth? he probably likes real ale and esoteric french cinema, and ingmar bergman films, although i bet he calls them flicks....

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:48

Trouble is, he is quite soulful...I was a rubbish girlfriend. But ~I did used to sew trousers for him. [nostalgic]

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:50

yES! he very likely does!!!

trying hard to put myself off. Oh god he was beautiful

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:51

Girls you may be onto a losing battle here

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Camillathechicken · 02/12/2007 17:51

beauty is fleeting. it is pointless without brains, personality and drive to back it up with

or, maybe you should shag him one more time, just to get him out of your system!

francagoestohollywood · 02/12/2007 17:51

hang on I like Bergman too!

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TwinklyfLightAttendant · 02/12/2007 17:52

Ok I will!!!!!! Yippeeee! Where do I queue????

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