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Original poster

to go on a 3 night hen weekend in spain.

38 replies

mamazon · 01/12/2007 22:33

because my mother thinks i am.

its not until june, i can't really afford it but i will pay for it by budgeting like mad over the next 6 months (its not until June)

my children will be either staying with my parents whom they see daily and stay over all the time or with my brother and his girlfriend and his two children.
(sounds a bit iresponsible not to have this all properly arranged but its really far ahead and i only agreed to go today)

either way they will be perfectly safe abnd happy.

i will be taking them camping a couple of times during the year, so they will have a holiday as well.

i have never been abroad, i never do anythign for myself and alwasy put my kids first.

am i really such a bad person for taking one weekend out just for me?

(by the way, if you say yes then i will cry)

OP posts:
lilolilbethlehem · 01/12/2007 22:34

GO and enjoy it!!!!

PeachesMcLeanEatsSprouts · 01/12/2007 22:38

Not unreasonable. And if your children went to stay with your brother and his children, they'll have a wail of a time. Go and enjoy it, I say.

paulaplumpbottom · 01/12/2007 22:39

You should go, don't worry about what other people think

SantasLittleToiletFlusher · 01/12/2007 22:39

Of course you're not!
I went to Spain for a WHOLE WEEK when mine were 1yr and 3yrs old with 5 other women. None of my family batted an eyelid!
God it was good.

lilolilbethlehem · 01/12/2007 22:42

So, it's your mother vs mumsnet!!! Go for it and let us know all about it when you get back!

Squirtle · 01/12/2007 22:44

I went to Alaska (because my sister took me) for 12 days when my boys were 1 and 3. They said with my parents and had a fab time.
Go for it.

Willowwisp · 01/12/2007 22:45

GO GO GO, your so not being unreasonable, enjoy yourself you deserve it!!!

My best friend has asked me to go on safari with her next summer, little one will only be a year old, I'm considering it and hubby is all for it, we have to have time to ourselves me thinks! (just scared I might be mistaken for a hippo)!!!

Enjoy!

Willow
xxx

MAMAZONtopofSanta · 01/12/2007 22:55

thank heavans for that.

i had pretty much decided i would go. but was feeling a bit guilty about it.

my mum doesn't think women should work if they have children either so i shouldn't have been surprised by her opinions on this.

the kids will be fine and as you say they will enjoy their time away from grumpy me anyway.

OOOOOh im so excited already. dear lord i need to get out more lol

DynamicKermitsNanny · 01/12/2007 22:56

The kids will be fine, Have fun!

motherhurdicure · 01/12/2007 23:12

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unknownrebelbang · 01/12/2007 23:17

YANBU.

I take it you will be going?

MAMAZONtopofSanta · 01/12/2007 23:27

yeap. i am going. just need to here a few words of encouragment though.

so, diet starts here.

moondog · 01/12/2007 23:28

Good God no,of course it's not unreasonable!!
Go and have a lovely time!
Your mother being most unfair.

moondog · 01/12/2007 23:28

Good God no,of course it's not unreasonable!!
Go and have a lovely time!
Your mother being most unfair.

moondog · 01/12/2007 23:28

Good God no,of course it's not unreasonable!!
Go and have a lovely time!
Your mother being most unfair.

TheChickenLady · 02/12/2007 00:52

You HAVE to go.

liliac · 02/12/2007 00:58

GO, you have to.

ScottishMummy · 02/12/2007 01:04

unreasonable not to go. have a laugh with the gals, get glammed up because you are worth it

MAMAZONtopofsanta · 02/12/2007 01:06

AIBU to be far more excited about this than christmas lol

ScottishMummy · 02/12/2007 01:12

Oi time for some me-me-me-me-me time and a big swim in lake me. you put the kids 1st now have some fun - ah go on

deeeja · 02/12/2007 01:21

GO GO GO!
I would love to go away for three whole days and nights!
Makes me giddy to think about it, am almost breathless with joy!
GO GO GO GO GO GO GO GO!

ScottishMummy · 02/12/2007 01:23

mamazon we are all living vicariously through you so Go-Go

Bouncingturtle · 02/12/2007 11:25

Your mum IBU - Go and have a fab time - seems to me you have thought of everything!

soopermum1 · 02/12/2007 13:41

deffo go. i go to amsterdam for 3 nights every year for a work conference and to get outrageously pissed at the same time, naturally, DS stays with granny and grandad, granny is all for it. i absolutely love it, i get to live like the non-mummy for 3 days, but by the end of it, i've got it all out of my system and i'm glad to go back to blissful doesticity

MAMAZONtopofsanta · 02/12/2007 13:45

oh thats excatly what i am so excited about.

to be Amazon rather than MAMAzon for a change iyswim.

oh im so excited you cannot believe. all i need to do now is lose about 10 stone so i can wear a swimming costume lol

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