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AIBU to wonder if it really is my fault?

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HolidayBluz · 15/08/2021 09:35

On holiday with husband and 2dc. Husband likes to go surfing here.

Went out surfing yesterday afternoon which was fine. We discussed taking the Dc swimming when he got back.

But he was out so long that there wasn’t time for swimming before dinner. While he was out I was in the cottage with the preschool dc as it was raining. Kept them busy with activities but they were going a bit crazy.

When he got back I said you were much longer than I expected. Since then he’s basically been ignoring me.

I apologised last night saying the dc had been a lot and I was a bit overwhelmed but he’s still basically ignoring me/ giving one word answers.

I feel sick in my stomach. I wish I hadn’t said anything. I’ve basically ruined the rest of the holiday now.

I can’t help but think maybe I should be forgiven though. I’m not perfect but I’m trying my best.

AIBU to think this can be forgotten about?

OP posts:
GabriellaMontez · 20/01/2023 13:45

Life's too short... glad to hear you've got a happy relaxed future ahead of you x

Thepeopleversuswork · 20/01/2023 13:46

Also just read the update (d'oh). Well done!

CringeCrush · 20/01/2023 13:47

Well done, @HolidayBluz 💐 I didn’t see your thread the first time around, but just wanted to say I grew up in an atmosphere like this and it has undoubtedly had an impact on me, even as an adult. You’ve done absolutely the right thing for your DC and their future. Wishing you all the very best x

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