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AIBU?

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Aibu and holding DD back?

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startrek90 · 06/08/2021 14:27

Come on Aibu rather than the breastfeeding board as I think you trusty vipers will give it to me straight.😂

Reading a thread on this board has got me thinking. I am still breastfeeding my DD who will be 1 year old this month and I am wondering if I am holding her back/doing it for too long?

My 2 older children stopped breastfeeding at 3 months and 4 month respectively (not my choice but I had to go onto formula) and I know literally no one who has breastfed past 6 months old. I thought my DD would stop when we introduced food but tbh she has shown no interest in stopping, she still feeds to sleep and she co sleeps still (again not my choice but it was the only way to get sleep!). She averages about 3 feeds during the day and she wakes once at night. She will not take any bottle at all, not even expressed breast milk believe me I've tried.

She also has not teeth yet which I think is due to her breastfeeding as my boys both had teeth by 9 months. She also doesn't walk, she can crawl but she prefers to bum shuffle herself along.

I'm worried that breastfeeding her this long is holding her back, she is supposed to start kindergarten in September but she is still a baby and I am worried that she will be so far behind the other children, but I have no idea how to get her to stop she won't take a bottle, she can't have formula has it makes her have awful reflux (first time I ever experienced this too) and she won't take ordinary milk.

Be honest vipers am I breastfeeding her to long? Am I holding her back?? Any suggestions would be welcome.

OP posts:
Wilkolampshade · 06/08/2021 23:30

Well my DD1 was born, rather oddly with teeth just showing under her gums. I can tell you, breastfeeding was unbelievably painful but we managed a rather toothy year as she was a big feeder. Talked 'normally' at a year, walked normally around the same time.
DD 2. No teeth at birth. First teeth months later. (til'the normal time) Was never keen on breast feeding so we only got to six months. DD2 very late talker, (2 years?) but then suddenly whole sentences.
No 1 has just finished an MA.
No 2 just started as undergraduate violinist at the Royal College.
Just love them and be interested.
None of this breastfeeding/teeth/talking stuff matters. It's fine. Keep going. Xx

fan90 · 06/08/2021 23:40

One! One year old isn't some great big age for you to think you shouldn't be breastfeeding. Don't be daft. It's a baby.

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