[quote clickychicky]@Mulletsaremisunderstood well.. I thought surgery and hormones would be enough for me but this thread is making me reconsider.[/quote]
Sorry clickychicky I wasn't getting at you specifically, just frustrated at the concept of a woman costume being all it takes.
I was where you are a few months ago, wondering what all the fuss was about. I genuinely thought if these people were struggling and in so much distress with their bodies that they would go through extreme surgery, then we should help them and feel sorry for them.
I still think that about people genuinely suffering from gender dysphoria. The problem is that in the last few years, what 'trans' is has changed massively. Hormones and surgery are no longer required. Anyone can be trans if they simply declare it.
I live in Ireland, where Self ID is now in law. This means that any man can fill out a form, pay a small fee, and be legally declared a woman, for all purposes. It was brought in without public discussion about what this would do to women's places and spaces in society.
This has lead to male rapist being put in the women's prison. These males 'identify' as women (whatever the hell that means) but have their genitalia fully intact. That is horrific, and it's happening in lots of places.
The media are not fully reporting on this. They will report crimes committed by TW (self declared, no surgery/ hormones required) as being committed by a woman. How is fair and transparent reporting?
Even MN doesn't really want us talking about this, which is why we have been mainly shunted off the the Feminist board (not even the main one anymore) and people complain if anything is mentioned on other parts of the site. Even though this is something that affect women hugely.