I have three dcs. 22, 18 and 15.
I'll start by saying that Dh and I have had a really tough couple of years. We run our own business and times are very tough, not sure if we'll even have a business this time next year. We live very rurally (this is relevant!). No public transport, taxi service miles away.
Anyway, we've not had holidays for the last few years. Dh has booked a weekend away for just me and him. We told dd22 we were going to do this. She is living with us before she goes back to uni mid September. She also has a car that we pay for. Ds18 is waiting for his test to come through but can't drive.
We asked dd22 to be around that weekend as she has the car,just in case there's an emergency, I am sure they'll have to go to a shop at some point.
She agreed - but was very reluctant. I more or less begged her to do it.
Anyway she's come home today and said she has a party 3 hours drive away on the Saturday that we go away, so won't be around from Saturday lunchtime until Sunday afternoon. This means ds and dd will be in the house on their own (fair enough they are 18 and 15) but they won't have a car in case of emergency or to get to the shops. I know they will probably cope, but it would have meant I could really enjoy myself and relax knowing dd1 was here with her car.
AIBU to expect dd22 to stay at home that weekend?
Yes - you are being unreasonable and the other 2 will just have to cope without anyone here with a car
No - She's being selfish and unhelpful
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AIBU?
To be pissed off with dd but to accept that we can't force her to do it?
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Omronron · 29/07/2021 18:01
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Am I being unreasonable?
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29/07/2021 18:13
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