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DH insisting the oven is a microwave too. Should I LTB or wait and watch?

211 replies

hahahayoumustbejoking · 13/07/2021 17:38

For context, on holiday in a cottage. First holiday for yonks. Been a long long day and everyone a bit tired so we must be generous here.

DH making a latte. Getting very rattled at the pod machine. I've tried to help but, no, he knows best. Now insisting he can heat the milk in the microwave. There is no microwave. It's an oven and grill. DH has dug his heels in and is insisting it is a microwave and is now trying to put a mug of milk in it to heat. He won't be told different.

I'm now sitting watching this unfold.

Any thoughts?

OP posts:
PrincessNutella · 14/07/2021 00:21

Not all DHs are cocklodgers!

Ihavehadenoughalready · 14/07/2021 00:49

Are these things only available in the UK because I have never heard of such a thing in the US.

I feel somewhat deprived.

Bertiebiscuit · 14/07/2021 17:31

Go and have a walk/nap/bath/ and leave him to it - maybe there will be a miracle and he'll make dinner as well

angela99999 · 14/07/2021 17:35

It looks from the picture as if it is ONE of those compact ovens that does everything. The shame. You'll never be allowed to forget this...

Queenbee77 · 14/07/2021 17:42

I am laughing so hard! Tears as I cough and sniffle.....this is hilarious.......

sotiredofthislonelylife · 14/07/2021 17:43

@Igmum

And here in the wild we see the Alpha Male of the tribe determinedly asserting his dominance over the new technology. The Alpha Female seems to be on her phone and distancing herself from the Alpha Male. If we look very closely we can see popcorn. Is this a mating ritual? It seems unlikely the male will be able to perform
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sotiredofthislonelylife · 14/07/2021 17:45

@nocoolnamesleft

What's for dinner? Humble pie?
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Bertiebiscuit · 14/07/2021 17:47

Question :why do all the married women on mums net seem to have such useless incompetent 1950s style husbands? Everyday when I read the posts I cannot believe how rubbish the "DH s" are

Rewis · 14/07/2021 17:48

We have one of those microwave/ovens in the office. Great microwave but terrible oven.

MysteriesOfTheOrganism · 14/07/2021 17:51

LTB for being right. Wink

Mummyto2rugrats · 14/07/2021 17:51

Omg this has so made my day, OP sorry you were wrong and your DH was right but it has made me chuckle

TheSockMonster · 14/07/2021 17:54

So sad I only just spotted this thread. This is exactly the sort of thing I’d do!

Fortunately DH handles most of the holiday cooking or we’d be screwed Blush

jwpetal · 14/07/2021 18:13

let go of control and let him do what he wants without judgment.

godmum56 · 14/07/2021 18:15

you know what OP? the worst/best thing about this is that your DP will NEVER allow you to forget it

kazlau · 14/07/2021 18:19

Brilliant thread. So sorry DH was right. But it was a fluke. How would he ever know about combo grill/oven/microwave appliances 😂😂

Caiti19 · 14/07/2021 18:21

@bravefox

If it's an oven then presumably it has metal racks in? And you can't put metal in a microwave.

Grin

My microwave has metal racks. It's a combi microwave and traditional oven.
GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 14/07/2021 18:22

My ancient multi function 2nd oven is a microwave and grill, too. Has a wire rack and no turntable.

Brilliant for jackets - microwave and oven on together, 2 big ones with crispy skins in 14 minutes.

Caiti19 · 14/07/2021 18:22

I just saw your update and the photo. I have the exact same oven. Smile

LakieLady · 14/07/2021 18:24

@Twickytwo

You were quite sneery OP. You need to eat a lot of Humble Pie Wink
True, but her DH needs to cook the Humble Pie, and any other pies, as OP has plainly demonstrated that she cannot possibly be trusted to use any sort of oven, microwave or grill ever again, because she can't even identify the aforementioned appliances.

Turn this to your advantage OP, DH does all the cooking for the rest of the holiday, because he's the only one present with the required skillset.

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 14/07/2021 18:28

OP, you are a star for coming back and admitting he was right.

Just to warn you - some microwave/oven combos look like microwaves inside, with a turntable and no racks (I have one of these).

So if you're at your next holiday cottage and he starts insisting that he's going to cook a roast in what looks like a microwave... it might actually be an oven.

SheABitSpicyToday · 14/07/2021 18:28

This would be my husband if we had the same predicament and he proved me wrong in something Grin

AlfonsoTheMango · 14/07/2021 18:29

@Twickytwo - that was a snotty post and uncalled for.

marktayloruk · 14/07/2021 18:33

Sounds like a plot for a sitcom!

mum11970 · 14/07/2021 18:35

@hahahayoumustbejoking

Doesn't look microwavey to me
My mum’s oven looks similar to your picture and does indeed have a microwave function too.
mum11970 · 14/07/2021 18:40

Sorry I was a bit late to the game and you have already discovered it is indeed a microwave too.