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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Does anyone here actually like their husband?

191 replies

Womendohavevaginasnick · 20/06/2021 16:34

Yes=yabu
No=yanbu

Seems to me there's so much husband bashing going on on here, makes me wonder why some people are even together!

OP posts:
Holothane · 20/06/2021 16:48

Love mine but my god there are days when nine o clock comes and I can’t wait to go and watch stuff in the bedroom.

itsme · 20/06/2021 16:49

Mine's a good egg. I love him for who he is- he's a wonderful step dad and partner. Sometimes he annoys me but I annoy him too.

Seesawmummadaw · 20/06/2021 16:49

I love my husband. I don’t post about him because there is nothing really to say.

trilbydoll · 20/06/2021 16:50

He's one of the good guys. I'm not sure how much he likes me at the moment, I'm a bloody nightmare to live with because I'm so disorganised but he doesn't give me any reason to dislike him!

WorraLiberty · 20/06/2021 16:50

Yeah I quite like mine 👀

Vodkabulary · 20/06/2021 16:50

Mine is ace! Having had a superbly crap long term partner before I’m ever so grateful to have found such an amazing one now

Comedycook · 20/06/2021 16:50

Relationships are complicated...it's not a case of love or hate/like or dislike. You can love someone but dislike certain aspects of them

moynomore · 20/06/2021 16:50

I do t think it's husband bashing you are seeing. It basing bad husbands. A big difference.

moynomore · 20/06/2021 16:51

*bashing

SpindleWhorl · 20/06/2021 16:52

He's adorabubs 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

Oh no that's the cat

Pinchoftums · 20/06/2021 16:52

I love the bones of him but occasionally can't bear to look at him. 21 years of mainly ups and occasional downs. He is a kind, loving, hardworking, honest, stubborn, messy, thoughtful man.

ApolloandDaphne · 20/06/2021 16:52

Mine is lovely and there is no-one I like spending time with more than him. He can have his pain in the arse moments, but then again so can I!

MimiDaisy11 · 20/06/2021 16:52

I’m not sure what AIBU thread you could start about how nice your husband is. Plus it’d be boring and would sink with little responses.

TeenMinusTests · 20/06/2021 16:53

My DH is ace, he really stepped up over the pandemic when DD2 collapsed and I more or less followed her.
And he has a 'hobby'. Grin

FourTeaFallOut · 20/06/2021 16:53

Starting a thread about how brilliant your relationship is would make you a bit of a dick, right up there with those starting threads about what to do with all their disposable income. It would be cruel to talk about it on a thread started by someone who is wading through a difficult relationship. It's only when threads come along like this that it's appropriate.

Pinkchocolate · 20/06/2021 16:53

My DH is pretty amazing. He’s by far the nicest human I know. He’s loyal and kind and although he annoys the shit out of me at times, there is no one else I’d rather share my life with.

Blueskytoday06 · 20/06/2021 16:54

I had one I didn't and now I have one that I do.

Bizawit · 20/06/2021 16:55

I’m not sure what your point is? Are you offended by women seeking advice on a support forum when they are having problems in their relationship? Hmm

DeRigueurMortis · 20/06/2021 16:55

Yes - I both love and like him.

As well was being my DH he's also my best friend.

There's nobody's company (children aside) I rather be in.

But I do wish he could learn to hang up a towel properly and make the bed attractively Grin

Blueskytoday06 · 20/06/2021 16:55

*edit : neither I married

SimonJT · 20/06/2021 16:56

Yes, hes great, he also has the patience of a saint, which is the only reason he can put up with me.

RampantIvy · 20/06/2021 16:57

Yes. 40 years married next month. I don't post about him on here because it wouldn't make interesting reading.

DocsOddSocks · 20/06/2021 16:59

I do! He's literally my best friend and a great Daddy to our baby girl Smile

firstimemamma · 20/06/2021 17:01

I adore mine.

ConstanceGracy · 20/06/2021 17:01

I do , he’s my best friend.. but! He can also be a dick but so can I