Just to put it out there in case I am misunderstood in my earlier up thread posts.
I stand by what I posted.
It is not the actual card or in class school activity but all about the significance and recognition of today as Father’s Day and other significant days to celebrate including Mother’s Day and indeed also other new development in legally recognised alternative adult lifestyles.
The card is in itself is of no massive significance as surely for a very child it is just another card, be it for father, mother, Christmas, new year, Easter, friend’s birthday or thank you card!
MumsNet is seemingly the online hub where the entitlement exceptionalism is norm ie pandering to that unique rare minority demographic and take away the feelings and enjoyment by the majority. So sure it is not ideal for that one child with no father or criminal father etc to be instructed to make a card or mark the day but what about everyone else. Do all their feelings don’t count. It’s not the card or arts and craft session it is cancel culture that is insensitive to the majority. The few children with unique circumstances (beyond their control) should be given special treatment to enjoy other things and not be a reason for cancel culture preventing others from what is right for them the majority of the class. Perhaps grandfather card alternatives if appropriate? Or if absolutely politically gender undefined a parents day card! Waiting for posters to now unnecessarily argue they never had a or two parents so how about grandpa or grandparent(s) card instead? This should be a happy celebration day not a day to bring up a troubled past. You surely want your child today to be a responsible and respectful parent tomorrow!?
What a lot of pompous twaddle. Schools have enough to do (and enough necessary work on which to spend their stationery budgets) without having to be the upholders of Hallmark days which not everyone actually considers a big deal, and which are potentially very tricky for some children. Not because they are 'snowflakes' or necessarily because they are the product of atypical family set-ups (about which you can clearly barely conceal your sneer), but because of genuinely traumatic or difficult home lives. Sadly this does not only apply to a few children.
To claim that schools need to 'show respect' by getting involved in what should be a family's own choice about how they deal with family events is utter nonsense. As is claiming that a child needs to be made to make a Mother's Day or Father's Day card at school in order to turn out as a 'respectful parent'. Also, I don't think you apear to know what 'cancel culture' means.
Definition: "Cancel culture or call-out culture is a modern form of ostracism in which someone is thrust out of social or professional circles – whether it be online, on social media, or in person."
It doesn't mean cancelling an activity because it might upset people.