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To think my neighbour can drill a whole in my house to permanently hang a 15ft tarpaulin?

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Euro21widow · 18/06/2021 13:34

So, name changed as obviously outting as pretty sure this isn't a normal occurance!

My neighbour has drilled a hole in my (grade 2 listed) building so she can permanently hang a piece of tarpaulin about 15ft up (as high as my 1st floor roof) for "privacy". Surely she can't just do this? Where do I go from here? It blocks all the light out to my ground floor windows now. Have included (bad) diagram.

To think my neighbour can drill a whole in my house to permanently hang a 15ft tarpaulin?
To think my neighbour can drill a whole in my house to permanently hang a 15ft tarpaulin?
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Mummyoflittledragon · 18/06/2021 14:28

Wow she’s bonkers. You’ve so done the right thing. G2 listed, no way!

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BruceAndNosh · 18/06/2021 14:29

"Privacy" from what?
Where are the windows of yours that overlook her property?

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PatchyTwat · 18/06/2021 14:31

Cant you just drop your side that’s attached to your wall and leave it dangling. Keep doing it until the council turns up.


Cheeky cow!

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randomkey123 · 18/06/2021 14:32

I reported our neighbours for putting up a party gazebo in lockdown (solid wood structure complete with foundations) in their front garden. Someone from the enforcement team at the local council went round 2 days later, they take planning breaches very seriously.

Fight it officially and not with batshit neighbours (which seem to be in very plentiful supply).

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roseinthedark · 18/06/2021 14:32

Wow so cheeky!!! Glad you have reported it

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DartmoorDoughnut · 18/06/2021 14:32

Hope you get a reply back ASAP and it’s down again soon

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Conchitastrawberry · 18/06/2021 14:34

She’s totally bonkers and I’d go mad. My mum has a grade 2 listed house and the rules are super strict. She’s even had the people who regulate this stuff looking through her windows to see what they’ve done. Tell her to remove it and that you’re reporting her.

Jesus what a f....ing cheek!

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FatCatThinCat · 18/06/2021 14:34

I thought you were being unreasonable when I read the thread title. Not worth falling out with your neighbours over. Then I saw your diagram Shock Holy shit, she's off her trolley. You can't just hang a sheet over your neighbour's window because you don't like them looking out of it. What on earth is going on in her head? And that's not even factoring in the listed building bit.

By the way, when I did my contruction degree I got to spend a few weeks shadowing a planning officer. We went out to grade 2 listed building who'd put in a planning application for new windows. When we did the site visit the officer spotted a proper, professionally installed, retractable canopy. She was furious as it had no planning permission and they had to remove it.

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Its90minutestonight · 18/06/2021 14:36

Well done OP. Might be worth contacting the listed buildings people as well. May the birds shit on her awning.

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theemmadilemma · 18/06/2021 14:37

I was going to ask if your property was empty for a while before you moved in.

Glad you've reported it. Good luck!

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MarianneUnfaithful · 18/06/2021 14:37

I would check the legality of anyone attaching anything to your house wall whether listed or not.

If you haven’t long moved in could you drop an e mail to the solicitor who handled your purchase and ask whether or not she is correct about it being her garden wall and can screw stuff in.

Based on what s/he says you could then relay the info to your neighbour and eventually pay the solicitor to write her a letter.

Aggravating that such entitlement could end up costing you £150 ish Angry

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Jaxhog · 18/06/2021 14:37

Highly unlikely she can do this.

  1. If this is party wall (unlikely if you have windows in it), she would need party wall consent from you.
  2. She would need listed building consent, which is unlikely to be forthcoming.


However, councils are often reluctant to take enforcement action, so I would also be talking to a solicitor ASAP.
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Jellybabiesforbreakfast · 18/06/2021 14:40

If they're sail shades, you can simply lean down from your first floor windows with some long cutters (have forgotten the technical name for them) and cut the cords.

In your neighbours' position, I wouldn't be all that happy with your windows looking straight out onto my garden but it's not exactly your fault, the houses were built like that. And I'd be looking at legal solutions (growing a hedge, bamboo screening or a sail shade mounted properly on poles in my garden) rather than drilling into someone else's wall.

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Stompythedinosaur · 18/06/2021 14:41

Absolutely astonishing behaviour from her!

I think the grade 2 is the way to raise it, as it sounds like the wall is a party wall (if is lies along the boundary) and I don't think you have to notify the other party for drilling to put things up.

Info here:
www.gov.uk/party-walls-building-works/work-tell-your-neighbour-about

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memberofthewedding · 18/06/2021 14:41

How did the neighbour get onto your property to drill the hole? Did she trespass? Did you not notice the drilling? Or was it done before you moved in?

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Melroses · 18/06/2021 14:41

@Jaxhog

Highly unlikely she can do this.

  1. If this is party wall (unlikely if you have windows in it), she would need party wall consent from you.
  2. She would need listed building consent, which is unlikely to be forthcoming.


However, councils are often reluctant to take enforcement action, so I would also be talking to a solicitor ASAP.

Yes this.

You are going to need a 2 pronged approach - planning enforcement and civil enforcement.

It is worth seeing a solicitor who knows about deeds/listed buildings and sensible ways to approach problems. Forewarned is forearmed and all that. It is then something you will have a better understanding about if another thing happens.
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Lovenahla · 18/06/2021 14:42

So rude

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KeziaOAP · 18/06/2021 14:42

My childhood home was Grade II listed, ndn attached trellis to the house wall abutting their garden, my father asked them to remove it they refused saying it formed part of their garden wall, this wall also belonged to my father's house. Planning enforcement were notified consequently it had to be removed. Any structure/trellis subsequently put up had to be freestanding away from the wall, can't remember the distance 6" maybe.

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mogsrus · 18/06/2021 14:43

letter headed by he words....Intent of action..followed by how long you give them to remove item, it's a listed building & your property so it all comes down to criminal damage, job done.

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Jaxhog · 18/06/2021 14:46

You might also want to enlist the help of your local councilor, as they can add pressure on the conservation officer into taking swift action.

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Newbie8365 · 18/06/2021 14:49

Following

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cheeseismydownfall · 18/06/2021 14:51

I'm struggling to understand your diagram, sorry! Does one of your windows open into her garden? What privacy is she trying to create from what?

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SupremeDreamz · 18/06/2021 14:51
Shock
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elfycat · 18/06/2021 14:53

If you're in the UK with current lovely weather, I'd make a call chasing this up, as you are concerned that if a gust of wind gets under it the anchor points might give, damaging your listed property.

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gardenworks666 · 18/06/2021 14:56

pair of scissors should sort it out. followed by a solicitor's letter to warn them off ever trying something so stupid again.

something similar happened to someone I know; neighbour decided to put up an extension to their fence and for stability they drilled it into my friend's house!!! with no consultation / discussion, nothing .

Where the hell do these people come from? beggars belief ..... they are barking mad and entitled as hell.

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