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To think my neighbour can drill a whole in my house to permanently hang a 15ft tarpaulin?

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Euro21widow · 18/06/2021 13:34

So, name changed as obviously outting as pretty sure this isn't a normal occurance!

My neighbour has drilled a hole in my (grade 2 listed) building so she can permanently hang a piece of tarpaulin about 15ft up (as high as my 1st floor roof) for "privacy". Surely she can't just do this? Where do I go from here? It blocks all the light out to my ground floor windows now. Have included (bad) diagram.

To think my neighbour can drill a whole in my house to permanently hang a 15ft tarpaulin?
To think my neighbour can drill a whole in my house to permanently hang a 15ft tarpaulin?
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Womendohavevaginasnick · 19/06/2021 10:31

Oh what a shame it was a troll!

Yesitsbess · 19/06/2021 10:31

@DartmoorDoughnut well that's my morning read sorted!

Euro21widow · 19/06/2021 10:39

Hi @MrsTulipTattsyrup. I did report it like I think you suggested. Under work done to a listed building on my council's planning page. I couldn't get through to anyone due to covid and was directed to the form online.

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Euro21widow · 19/06/2021 10:40

I sadly don't have an exotic Gran or a sangria recipe :-(.

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Yesitsbess · 19/06/2021 10:46

Yes but you do have a gang of unruly pirates right here on this thread. Aaaarrrrrr!

Euro21widow · 19/06/2021 10:48

I am more in the mood for rum than sangria tbf Grin. And maybe a rendition of "what do we do with a drunken sailor" later.

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Yesitsbess · 19/06/2021 10:51

That's the spirit!

MrsTulipTattsyrup · 19/06/2021 11:03

@Euro21widow

Hi *@MrsTulipTattsyrup*. I did report it like I think you suggested. Under work done to a listed building on my council's planning page. I couldn't get through to anyone due to covid and was directed to the form online.
Oh yes! I didn’t mean to imply that, OP! It was just all the other stuff about English Heritage, planners and COs afterwards. Planning enforcement deal with all this stuff and seek advice from specialist officers as appropriate, so you’ve done the right thing. Following the other suggestions would have taken you a long time ringing round only for everybody to tell you to call enforcement.
MrsTulipTattsyrup · 19/06/2021 11:03

@Euro21widow

I am more in the mood for rum than sangria tbf Grin. And maybe a rendition of "what do we do with a drunken sailor" later.
This would be the best course of action I could imagine now that you’ve got the local authority on the case!
longtompot · 19/06/2021 11:04

@SingingInTheShithouse

You're right Black, but in my experience with a neighbours flag flapping around, they can cause horrendous noise disturbance too & that's not always something you want to wait to have fixed.
One of our neighbours has a flag and the actual flag is ok, it's the metal clipping bits of whatever they are called, that attach the flag to the pole which are annoying. It ding dings when it's a bit windy, though not as bad as a neighbour behind us who had one for a short while which was the noisiest thing ever!
Minfilia · 19/06/2021 11:05

That would drive me mad!

She does sound unpleasant from your other posts though!

HereIfYouNeedMe · 19/06/2021 11:06

Can I be part of the ship, part of the crew? 🍹

Euro21widow · 19/06/2021 11:11

Thanks @MrsTulipTattsyrup. I really do appreciate all the support. Wasn't expecting such the response, but am glad my first reaction that she wasn't on seems to be correct.

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Sexnotgender · 19/06/2021 11:22

@Euro21widow

Thanks *@MrsTulipTattsyrup*. I really do appreciate all the support. Wasn't expecting such the response, but am glad my first reaction that she wasn't on seems to be correct.
It’s definitely not on! She’s absolutely bonkers.
Sadiecow · 19/06/2021 11:22

Madness!

alexabbq · 19/06/2021 11:40

Goodness gracious!!! I would be fuming

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 19/06/2021 11:54

"What shall we do with batshit neighbour?" sounds well to the same tune.

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 19/06/2021 11:56

Gah, phone left out the 'the' before 'batshit'.

memberofthewedding · 19/06/2021 11:56

Just wondering what kind of a person voted YABU

SirVixofVixHall · 19/06/2021 11:57

@memberofthewedding

Just wondering what kind of a person voted YABU
The person who pressed the wrong button by accident. (Not me in this instance but I have form).
FakeColinCaterpillar · 19/06/2021 12:01

I love a CF when it isn’t affecting me 😂

I’m always surprised by the balls of some people. What if she had caused damaged (or is causing damage now).

PerciphonePuma · 19/06/2021 12:06

Ignoring the Grade 2 Listing aspect to the issue, if it's in the back of your house then unfortunately the lack of light aspect won't be considered. Apparently, you have no 'right to light' at the back of your property. My Mum discovered this when her neighbours put up a huge extension and blocked her entire garden from ever receiving any sunlight! :(

Yesitsbess · 19/06/2021 12:15

@HereIfYouNeedMe welcome to the good ship Flappyhouse!

HereIfYouNeedMe · 19/06/2021 12:16

[quote Yesitsbess]@HereIfYouNeedMe welcome to the good ship Flappyhouse![/quote]
😂🏴‍☠️

StaffRepFeistyClub · 19/06/2021 12:25

Teach the children sea shanty songs and offer them a reward for singing whenever she is outside under the sail. Summer holidays coming up 😂

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