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What would you do if an adult hit your child

188 replies

Breadcheesebread · 18/06/2021 13:14

Without going into too many details.

Two 6 month olds were playing, one ended up hitting the other on the hand, accidentally.
Neither reacted, carried on playing.

The mother of the one who was hit, said 'I saw that' and lightly tapped the hand of the child who had hit her child.
She then turned to her own child and asked if she was OK. Her child stared blankly at her.

The poor kid who had just been hit by the adult looked so confused.
The mother of the one that hit his friend accidentally was so shocked she didn't say anything.

If it was my child, it would take all my strength not to slap the woman.

Or is that unreasonable?

OP posts:
SD1978 · 18/06/2021 20:03

They looked confused concentrating on having a poop. I still say the highly emotive language used by the OP is unnecessary. Neither child was affected by the interaction, and agin, don't like it, don't associate with them in future.

SD1978 · 18/06/2021 20:04

I meant look, not looked. Changes the sentence structure! Sorry

namcybotwinbloom · 18/06/2021 20:05

Six months old playing?

I don't believe this is real.

Bridezillamaybe · 18/06/2021 20:09

I'd say "and I saw that" and punch her full force in the face.

MolyHolyGuacamole · 18/06/2021 20:19

@Isitsixoclockalready

How could anyone ask a 6 month old if they were ok and expect a response? Bizarre.
People talk to their babies all the time without the expectation of a response, there's nothing odd about that
tony68 · 18/06/2021 20:23

Work with kids do you @khakiandcoral? 🥴

JackieTheFart · 18/06/2021 20:25

This is possibly the most ridiculous situation I’ve ever read.

yourestandingonmyneck · 18/06/2021 20:35

I agree she doesn't sound very well.

The "I saw that" I find particularly strange. It suggests an intent to be sneaky on the part of the 6 month old baby, which is just madness.

ShinyGreenElephant · 18/06/2021 20:47

Someone hit my 6 month old baby I think I'd end up in jail. Shes clearly mentally unwell but that wouldn't help me stay calm if she 'tapped' my child

SkedaddIe · 18/06/2021 20:59

Report it to the police.

I'd be scared what she does to her own child behind closed doors if she has so very little self control with someone else's child in a public place.

sunflowerdaisies · 18/06/2021 21:09

I wouldn't want to be friends with someone so sensitive and defensive of their child so would keep a distance from now on and would tell them why if asked. Imagine the children as toddlers when one actually hits or bites the other and dealing with her.

pabloescobarselasticband · 18/06/2021 21:11

I would have not so lightly tapped her face with my hand!!!

Seesawmummadaw · 18/06/2021 21:21

I would tell her that I saw that and tap her hand. What a knob.

JackieTheFart · 18/06/2021 21:26

Some of the responses to the frankly bonkers OP are insane. Call the police?! Smack her in the face?!

nanbread · 18/06/2021 21:27

I'd think "what the fuck?" Then give her a VERY wide berth.

StevieNix · 18/06/2021 21:30

So it sounds like it was just a tap and not a smack- however regardless I would either immediately pick my child up and leave (which would be the more mature solution so I would try to do this one!) OR I would go absolutely nuclear on her

championthewonderhorse70 · 18/06/2021 21:43

How the heck do 6 month old babies play together?

Stompythedinosaur · 18/06/2021 21:57

I think I'd have have "How dare you hit my baby!" If it was at a baby group I'd have told the organiser. Beyind fucking wierd behaviour!

4PawsGood · 18/06/2021 21:57

@championthewonderhorse70

How the heck do 6 month old babies play together?
They don’t. They sit next to each other and flap aimlessly.
QueenBee52 · 18/06/2021 22:31

@Bridezillamaybe

I'd say "and I saw that" and punch her full force in the face.

🤣😂

SkedaddIe · 19/06/2021 06:17

@JackieTheFart

Some of the responses to the frankly bonkers OP are insane. Call the police?! Smack her in the face?!
Call the police? No lol, it's not an emergency.

It takes about 5 minutes to report it online, that's what I'd do. And only because I'd lose my career if I slapped the parent in the face.

Recessed · 19/06/2021 06:34

I'd be boiling with fury! Even if it wasn't my baby and I witnessed her do it to another woman's child I'd give her a serious dressing down.

MaMaD1990 · 19/06/2021 06:39

First off she didn't 'hit' a 6 month old baby - that's an extreme description. However, if it were my child I'd be having a strong word with the woman not to ever touch my kid and if she has an issue, she's to come and speak to me so I can decide what to do....and in this situation, it would be nothing.

Pongo101 · 19/06/2021 08:52

I remember when a random man in a cafe got down on the floor to tell my one year old dd off, with a finger in her face.

Something just came over me from deep inside and I just stood up and started screaming at him to get away from my daughter and who did he think he was etc.

The whole cafe went quiet and everyone was just sat there staring.

If someone had physically touched her I would have likely stabbed them in the face with a fork.

CandyLeBonBon · 19/06/2021 10:28

@JackieTheFart

This is possibly the most ridiculous situation I’ve ever read.
I think some of the responses even more so!
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