No longer shocked
Angry, dismayed, disappointed, heartbroken, fearful (especially as the mother of a 20 year old woman) and fed up!
But not shocked.
Vote Tory - this is what you get (among other things)
There were at least 3 whole forces who were found to not be recording - let alone investigating - rapes reported to them and were put under supervisory measures as a result!
That IS shameful behaviour!
I speak as the sister of a serving officer when I say attitudes within the police and beyond still need a MASSIVE sea change.
But also among wider society. There was a recent thread where the op was posting ostensibly about a girl being a "bad influence" on her dd, it was clear to anyone with any sense that this child was being groomed/abused and desperately needed help yet the first few posts were victim blaming bingo!
And frankly GIVEN the appallingly low recording, investigation, prosecution and conviction stats - is it any bloody wonder women and girls don't report rapes and sexual assaults?! Clearly 9.9 times out of 10 it's utterly pointless - actually worse as the victim has to go through the distress, humiliation and trauma involved in evidence gathering inc intimate medical exams, photos etc
I think we need to flip it on its head and look at why so many men rape when they know - or because they know - they are likely to get away with it.
Definitely!
We need to address the root causes - a sexist society, rape myths, hypersexualisation of certain demographics, victim blaming - rape culture essentially
when the stats show that two thirds of all charges result in a conviction. not rape charges so you must be meaning all crime? In which case if we have a 2/3 rate of conviction in regard to other crimes then the conviction rates for rape and sexual assault are even more shameful
Sentencing is another area needs looking at, community sentences for such heinous crimes is abhorrent!
I don’t blame the women for not reporting good to know I'm so sorry for all you've been through.
I'm a csa survivor I looked into reporting at one point but my word v his so no point and he wouldn't have admitted anything
When dds ex she met at work stalked her police and employers were fucking useless and treated her as if she were "just being a drama Queen" in desperation I contacted his parents (tbh thinking parents that raised such a lad would be little to no use) but actually they were horrified, assured me he'd be dealt with and he was and it stopped but i think in most cases this would have no effect.
I've friends and family who've been victims of seriously violent assaults and those who reported wished they hadn't! One has lost HER career as a result, the rapist is still in the same career which is deeply concerning (teacher)
It's a mess!