Bear with me with my theory on this.
I know it's not PC to say these things these days but, I do think the male of the species and the female of the species are wired differently when it comes to hygiene and domestic order.
My theory is that it's a throwback to the days when we were cave dwellers.
The male of the species, being generally physically bigger and stronger than the female (YES, I know there are exceptions) did the hunting and gathering.
That would generally involve trecking off in all sorts of weather, hanging about in the undergrowth, laying low in dug outs getting covered in mud, manure, animal blood etc etc
It would be beneficial in that case, not to be too fussed about hygiene type stuff.
The female of the species, would generally, remain round the camp guarding the young and vulnerable and protecting the camp from predators.
What would encourage predators to the camp?
Poor hygiene - that's what!
Carelessly discarded bits of food would attract all sorts of threats.
Piled up mess would provide a home and shelter for vermin which spread disease, bite you or your children and could eat their way through any stores of consumables being saved for the lean seasons.
Therefore, the female of the species learned that maintaining good hygiene and domestic order = keeping safe/well/surviving.
Some of us are more evolved than others!
That's my take on it.