Worst Human being you've ever known?

[thebatman]

After life saving surgery at the start of the year I've been doing some soul searching and re-evaluating a lot in my life, and looking back it astonishes me that I put up with some truly awful people for so long, even when I knew what complete and utter unrepentant shits they were, so, can I ask, who is the worst Human being you have ever known and why?

Not sure it is me that needs to grow up @Queenie6655 and yuk at your emoji.

Murry sadly you are but like you I'd have thought they were all lovely dedicated people before I met a sociopath one. Who had sociopath followers in her slt team.
They gaslighted me as the parent horrendously over my ds. Drove my ds to attempted suicide. Even my parents who are teachers couldn't believe what was happening in the school and worse still couldn't help.

The deputy even told me after they had to inform me a pupil threatened mine by pulling a knife on him in class that when asked why they said "because we are scared of mini weird". This child had beaten mine up numerous times and the heads previous suggestion was to remove my ds if I didn't trust them. Luckily all recorded and minuted and they hadn't disputed it.

Then when my ds tried to take his own life as he'd rather die through his own choice than be killed at school and had an emergency medical apt they refused to authorise the absence as they didn't think he had anything to be anxious about. (Again all recorded).

They even tried to refer me to EWO which is the point at which it began to backfire on them.

When ofsted was next due the head left mid year for "another opportunity" alongside some of the other slt and those who remained had alternative job titles suddenly.

Then covid hit and ofsted didn't arrive. I'm actually glad she was forced out unnecessarily- now she knows how my poor ds felt.

My auntie is probably the nastiest person I’ve ever met. She was going to accuse someone (innocent) of a really hideous crime as revenge on someone else. It was a really complicated set of circumstances and had the potential to destroy lives. I persuaded her not to but it finished my relationship with her. I new she was fairly horrible but I was speechless when she told me what she was planning to do.

I knew someone who stabbed his girlfriend and cut up her body to conceal it. He's now in prison. It came as a shock as he was very charming.

Also a couple who set up a fake business and ripped off many hardworking people for thousands of pounds.

Sadly I've met a few really awful humans. My old boss was one, a sweaty, shouty, impatient vile public schoolboy who took his family business and pissed it away. He was a horrid bully whose mistress and him used the business as a piggy bank. He's now alone, miserable and broke.
My identical twin sister is also the most selfish, narcissitic, controlling person I was able to remove from my life. She has this 'respectable', social-climbing reputation but beneath that veneer she's a cruel bully. All her friends have been thrown to the side and are now my friends.
She and my equally awful younger sister publicly bullied my autistic older sister, among others. She is awful to anyone beneath her-thats everyone as she's better than anyone you care to mention.
Any friend/family member who dares to disagree with her is' jealous' of her house, her cars, her clothes , hates her and is bullied before being dropped then she starts trouble for daring to walk away.
I've had police, sspca and social at my door thanks to her and her rumour starting.
I can;t believe I let her treat me badly for so long. No more.
She's one unhappy person.
Thank god we have dogs!

@WentAboutMyDay

I knew someone who stabbed his girlfriend and cut up her body to conceal it. He's now in prison. It came as a shock as he was very charming.

Also a couple who set up a fake business and ripped off many hardworking people for thousands of pounds.

So many that seem charming or harmless end up doing this

My mother's ex and her current. Both could pass off as the same guy... lying, manipulate, jealous...the list goes on. Why does she attract this sort of male. I hate them with a passion and wish she could find someone who doesn't use her for money. She's a very naive woman unfortunately.

My team leader previous job stab you in the back as soon as look in your face. Took your ideas and presented them as her own. Lied through her teeth to users of the service thankfully lots saw through her. She’d did anything to avoid work. frequently complained to others that she thought I didn’t like her.

NC for this one, despite the fact that that my experience is more common than it should be: most of my birth family are despicable human beings. They're sheltering and enabling a paedophile. Anyone who refuses to shelter and enable said paedophile is shunned/mocked. They must be a liar, because paedo couldn't *possibly be that way.

Worse, family members know that this happened, but choose to ignore it/insist the paedo has atoned/changed/it doesn't matter because the victims were "asking for it/the wrong sort of children."

So yeah.... my birth family are despicable human beings. .

I've found out over the last several years that my experience is rather more common than it should be. It's disappointing to know how many families behave that way.

Horrific woman I worked with. So nasty to everyone, except her special friends.
She just made everyone’s life miserable, and although I could defend others, from her tirades and maliciousness, I couldn’t seem to defend myself.
She was hideous and made life a misery.
She was rude to people in the outside world too, as she would retell the nasty things she’d said to total strangers.
I took redundancy and laughingly she was promoted. She was the worst person I ever met.
Although another woman in my previous social circle came a close second, a total sociopath, charming to people, but secretly racist and nasty behind their backs. When she decided, she no longer needed someone she started childishly leaving when they entered, leaving days out when they arrived . She then started this with me too, and because she was such a Queen Bee, the others turned against you too.
I lost some nice friendships ( I thought, anyway) .
Happily she emigrated, I think they had a lottery win, and I hope one day to see she’s dead

My ex boss who sexually harassed and assaulted me at an old job

Not sure if this counts as known, more like know of them. A well known tick toker has just been discovered to be scamming loads of people out of money whilst claiming benefits for a bad back, they are doing loads of dancing videos with their 'bad' back and they have recently just put up a horrible youtube about sending all her enemys to the gas chambers and how she would laugh to hear their screams,

Someone sent this link to me of all the bullying, her videos really are shocking.

www.youtube.com/channel/UCf6zMVFHiVpxZN5TopG_x-Q

Love and sympathy to all who have posted heartbreaking stories here, and thebatman, I'm glad your surgery went well.

This thread has made me remember my unfailingly bad judgement in choosing flatmates. Including the one who stabbed another resident in a squabble over a pair of sunglasses. And the one who, in gales of laughter, told the "funny" story of how he'd driven an earlier flatmate to a nervous breakdown. Sure enough I was close to suicidal before I had the sense to leave.

A couple of people stand out to me:

My A Level English teacher who took a huge dislike to me and made sure my grades reflected that. I loved English and my GCSE English teacher had been fantastic, I got an A in both language and literature. Then along came the bitch A Level teacher...she literally ripped my work up in front of me once. Horrific person.

A nasty bully at my former workplace, who was jealous of me and the job I had, because she had wanted it. It was a school and she told the headteacher I had verbally abused a child (I hadn’t) because she wanted me sacked. Luckily the head didn’t believe her, but I ended up handing my notice in, as I couldn’t bear to sit in the same room as that vile woman ever again.

Another former colleague at another school! Just made my life miserable and made comments about my clothing, saying she could see my underwear and it wasn’t appropriate (she couldn’t as I checked in the mirror) she also went on about how I should t be wearing a thong at work! Horrific woman.

My sister. Her husband is a blessed saint for dealing with the shit she dishes out.

I accidentally shook hands with my paedophile uncle at a family funeral. Theres a lot of hand shaking at funerals and I wasn’t really paying attention to faces.
My parents went to the wedding of my second cousin. I found out years later the man had been in jail for 10 years for murdering a prostitute. I’m disgusted my parents would stick by this man and still be a part of his life.

told the "funny" story of how he'd driven an earlier flatmate to a nervous breakdown. Sure enough I was close to suicidal before I had the sense to leave
😟Did he use the same tactics on you?

the wrong sort of children

@Doodlebug71 that made tears come to my eyes. Someone who could say that about a victim of paedophilia is evil

every single fucking politician i have ever had the misfortune of having to work with, all of them are self-serving lying egotists with no intention of ever making anyone's life better.
most of my family, no one could write the shit they have done , makes soaps like kids tv

A boy in my school murdered his brother (who was in my class). He stabbed him and set him on fire.

@Vengefulgit

NC. My father (he was never my dad) who beat up me and my mum and the man who sexually abused me, he died shortly after it began and i went up and destroyed all the flowers on his grave and pissed on it too... it was very liberating! ffs i was a kid.

My mum reported this man as she thought something was wrong and the Police were brilliant, this was the mid 70s, they took it very seriously.

Funnily enough my Mum always denied it was her but it was, i could see the sadness in her eyes.

i have never told anyone any of this before, it never leaves you, thankyou for starting this thread, going have a good cry now.

From a fellow survivor of an abusive father

My dads family are all toxic and possibly the worst human beings ever.
Freeloaders, liars, abusers, self entitled selfish twats and a mutual relative admitted a few years ago that they did black magic to separate my parents. We've been through hell and back because of them. We are still feeling the effects of these monsters and I'm so angry with my dad for ever bringing these people into our home and forcing us to be family with them. I don't forgive my dad for this and never will. He knew his toxic family before marrying mum and having us, why the hell would you force a relationship with your dysfunctional family? They are truly awful awful people. The final straw is another stab on the back of my dads back due to inheritance issues which is another story.

@Backtoblack1

Saville.

you knew J Savile personally? Wow. Were you aware of what he was really like when you knew him or were you taken in by him, as so many seemed to be?

The worst person I knew was a former CPN I had a few years ago under local mental healthnteam, who belittled my trauma related symptoms to the point I took an overdose

I hate her. Vile vile woman.