Worst Human being you've ever known?

[thebatman]

After life saving surgery at the start of the year I've been doing some soul searching and re-evaluating a lot in my life, and looking back it astonishes me that I put up with some truly awful people for so long, even when I knew what complete and utter unrepentant shits they were, so, can I ask, who is the worst Human being you have ever known and why?

Also - the head chef at the golf club I had a Saturday job at as a teenager. He was vile. He was in his 30s but would scream at the teenager waitresses for absolutely nothing, egged on by his team of sous chefs etc
Absolute bully

A woman I used to work with, she was awful, really nasty and would boss everyone around as she’d been there since day dot yet she was no higher in seniority. She died of a brain tumor. Her daughter and granddaughter work with me now and everyone talks about how nice she was and how a part of the family she was but she was awful and a total bitch and I wish I could say that but I can’t so I just keep quiet.

Hmm. Many managers who I've had over the years. One in particular who almost broke me but I was lucky enough to be in a position to resign.

There are some really harrowing stories on this thread.

The walking talking piece of shit who abused me physically and sexually as a child.
Evil through and through. Started age 4 until I was aged 10.
Would try to suffocate me, would point out every single thing that was ‘ugly’ about me on a daily basis, would smash things up around the house, threaten to burn the house down while I slept if I ever told anyone else... All these memories from the time it all started, till they left my household.
Eventually went to court and instead of admitting all the counts of the things they did, they pleaded not guilty and dragged me as the victim and my whole family through a long, drawn out trial.
Luckily, jury found the POS guilty.
Now the POS has kids of their own to do it to... yet social services don’t give a shit, even tho POS is on the sex offender register.

Sickening.

I have 2 siblings who would watch you dying and loot your body rather than help. A step mother who kicked me out at age 12 after being married to my dad for 6 months. A dad who let her. But I worked with children in care a few times and these people pale into insignificance compared to the stories I heard there - the gang who kidnapped pretty girls and made them sex slaves, tattooing them with their initials. And the parents of the 3 year old found in a crack house who had been sold there for drugs.

Saville.

My sister. I can't see any good in her.

My ex. Once I had a stabbing pain in my chest. He did nothing despite my 6 year old saying "daddy it's an emergency"

My stepmother.

It started with small things like telling my 10 year old sister my neighbour (her colleague) had AIDS and if she went near her she would catch it and progressed to bigger things like terrifying me with ouija board sessions.

I had what I believed was a consensual sexual relationship with a middle-aged family friend when I was 15/16 (and can now recognise it was abuse). She knew about it and used it against me calling me a slut etc. It took until my 30s to get therapy and talk about it and for the shame to lift.

I had eating disorders as a teenager and ended up spending time in hospital and I was a crazy bitch according to her, when I made a suicide attempt she told me to try harder next time.

I went NC with her and my dad and only tried to rebuild a relationship when my dad was dying when I was in my 30s. Even then she told me and my sister he had a cancerous tumour on his bladder, when we talked to the hospital they had found a harmless lump which needed no treatment (he was ill with end stage kidney disease).

Two of her 3 children are NC with her because of her behaviour.

The worst thing is that 7 years on from my dad's death she is happy and about to get remarried. People like her always come out on top.

@blissfulllife

My grandchild's biological father. We don't know how he did it or why but he broke 8 ribs and an arm of my 2 week old 5 pound grandchild. My dd found him not breathing after leaving them alone for literally minutes. He nearly died. Has lasting medical issues probably as a result of his injuries. As he wouldn't admit to harming the baby the baby was taken from my dd and placed in care until court could determine who had inflicted the injuries. Her first child. She was so lost. It broke us as a family.

His lies fell apart in court and my dd was awarded full custody and his parental rights taken from him. In criminal court he got a measly 6 months! Couldn't believe it. Even found out he'd harmed another child previously but ss had failed to inform my dd.

I don't say this lightly but I hate him with every fibre in me

blissfulllife- This has chilled me , why on earth did ss not tell your daughter . My heart goes out to you .

@Sometimesfraught82
Over invested, much? why do you keep querying people's stories all through the thread? Or demanding they do this, that or the other?
You sound like a bully yourself.

Imagine the aunt of your children getting to know their nephews, building a tight bond and then smacking them.
They then cut you out when you loose it with them for hurting your child. Years later they want to reconnect so you try again.... for them to steal £100s of their nephews money multiple times. Then cut them out of their life's again instead of paying it back and apologising, then blaming YOU for everything. They turn their nephews cousins against them.

There's so much more to the story of real fuckery... yeah that's one I'm glad to be no contact with.

My DH’s brother and his wife. Vile pair of money loving, manipulative, green eyed monsters. They’ve been so cruel to my DD and I hate them both for it. I’d be indifferent if anything happened to them. My DH hates them so, so much. I doubt we’ll ever see them again, as we couldn’t be in the same room as them any more.

My step mother. She used to abuse us for the fun of it. Make up obscene lies to get us punished. I could go on forever, our childhoods were miserable. A few years ago when we finally all went NC with her and my dad she left me a voicemail saying she had won after all these years, she had him all to herself.

Oh God, I once worked with a woman who genuinely thought anyone not married to the father of their children, lived in social housing, foreign (ANY nationality), on benefits, totally beneath her and didn't deserve to breathe the same air as her, she was vile, everyone despised her. An awful bitter woman.

My supposed mum. When I was 15 she told me she had cancer as she knew I was old enough to understand, but didn’t want me to tell anyone that she told me as they all thought I was too young. Never had cancer.
Constant lies from her. Her family are all crazy. They blamed me for killing their mother, obviously didn’t, but I told them all what I thought a couple of years before and when she died I got the blame for it cause it was obviously a broken heart....nothing to do with the 40+ cigarettes she smoked which resulted in her death.

Obviously I can spell as I corrected the mistaken correction the iPad did. @Queenie6655.

@beigerocket

I’m a teacher and worked for the most horrendous head teacher ever.

She used to lie and falsify all kinds of data and observation to get people that she didn’t like out of the school by saying they were inadequate when they were not. Droves left every year with the year I left 7 teachers left at the same time.

She was a relentless bully and hated staff with children to the point if anyone was off because their children were poorly she would call and email constantly (this was even if the children were hospitalised as one of mine were once)

I don’t say hate lightly but I absolutely despise this woman for the promising careers she has destroyed and the amount of people I saw struggle with their mental health after her vicious bullying.

Wouldn’t piss on her if she was on fire, in fact, I’d probably pour petrol on.

Was this head given an ambassador type roll by a previous prime minister ?

Still going 🙄

Role not roll !

@zingally

I'm a primary school teacher, and the worst person I met was the head teacher of a school I worked at.

I don't throw the term around lightly, but this person was an honest to goodness sociopath. And like all sociopaths, she didn't know her behaviour was weird, dangerous, and damaging to others.

When she finally retired, we had a staff party to celebrate the fact she was gone!

And one day in the future, I fully plan to go dance on her grave.

Wow. Really.

That's awful. I have this image that all heads are lovely.

Clearly I am wrong.

People like her always come out on top
Maybe, but I found that as they get older the mask starts to slip,And people drop Away leaving them alone at the time That they most need people to help them

@TankGirl97 Dh's family had a close family friend (let's call him Ben) whose kids played tennis competitively in another European country. One of their opponents crashed his car and died driving home from a match. Turns out he'd been drugged. Ben was spiking the drinks of all his kid's opponents so they'd win. He went to prison for several years.

Omg!!!!!

That's just ... insane competitiveness. That poor chap who died, and his family left knowing it was a deliberate malicious act that cost his life. How awful!