DH is a good looking, well-built, lovely guy. He usually drops DS off at nursery and picks him up because I commute so it's not feasible for me to do that. He's in the whatsapp for some of the mum's at nursery (and, from what I can gather, he's the only dad), he fairly frequently gets asked for a "man's perspective" on things - usually issues with husbands, and obviously tries to stay neutral and passive because he's not really very gossipy or a fan of the drama. Recently he's mentioned that he frequently talks to a woman at pick up and drop off, saying that they should do a play date at her house. Her DD is about five/six years older than our DS (the nursery is attached to a school and drop off is at the same place) so I think it's a bit odd to have a play date.
Today, DH had a family emergency and needed to deal with that so I left work early and collected DS from nursery. As I was queuing to collect DS, there were two women talking. The conversation went roughly like this:
Woman 1: "Ooh, waiting for Big Daddy again?"
Woman 2: "Oh, what? [DH's name]? haha, maybe"
Woman 1: "Uh oh, behave yourself"
Woman 2: turns to her DD "We like [DS's name]'s daddy, don't we?"
Naturally, like the drama queen I am, I went back to my car and cried for a few minutes before going back and collecting DS. I told DH and he's said I must've misunderstood or misheard and that there's no way she's interested in him (although it's probably the woman who always happens to be collecting at the same time as him). I trust DH completely and totally, but he's said that no woman would try to pick up men at nursery - I think many women would flirt with or seek out relationships with men at nursery/school.
YABU - No woman would flirt with men at nursery/school gates.
YANBU - Women absolutely would flirt with men at nursery/school gates.