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To think this is too far to walk?

545 replies

TrinidadQueen · 03/06/2021 14:39

To school for a child?

15 minutes there and then 15 minutes back. Child is 7. It's to collect another child so would have to do the walk back immediately.

OP posts:
RockingMyFiftiesNot · 03/06/2021 17:58

As long as there is no reason why a 7 year old can't walk for 30 mins then no, it's not too far. Most children don't get enough exercise so this will be really good for their health.

Sweettea1 · 03/06/2021 18:00

Is this a joke thread? Half an hour walk for 7year old is absolutely fine my 5 year old can walk for a good hour at least No choice no car. 30 mins of walking every couple of days is actually not enough exercise for a 7 year old.

CatsPyjama · 03/06/2021 18:00

Of course it’s fine. You know lots of school do the ‘mile run’ so I’m pretty sure if they do that they can tolerate walking.

Lovewinemorethanhusband · 03/06/2021 18:03

My children walk about 10 minutes back to the car after school every day as parking is a nightmare and I refuse to double park , they are fine , when we go for walks with the dog we can walk around 2 hours and they are fine

ChikiTIKI · 03/06/2021 18:03

A 2 Yr old could manage that easily

MrsFin · 03/06/2021 18:07

So that's about 1 mile each way.
A 7 year old could probably run that, and get home in time to put the kettle on for you 😀

WorraLiberty · 03/06/2021 18:08

It's a worry that this question is even being asked.

And OP is certainly not alone in this ridiculous mindset, sadly.

Chickenonaperch · 03/06/2021 18:09

I can see why we have a childhood obesity crisis if 30 minutes of walking is considered difficult for any child over 2.

Acunningruse · 03/06/2021 18:12

I do 20 minutes each way with a 4 year old and 8 year old without issue, just take lots of snacks for the journey home.

midgedude · 03/06/2021 18:12

Rule of thumb.

1km per year of age
So 7 km or about 2 hours walking is fine

Years ago they used to say1 mile per year of age

Scarby9 · 03/06/2021 18:12

Absolutely 100% not too far for a child without difficulties that impact on their ability to walk. A very normal length of walk to school, and actually short for the kids round me ( just under a mile to walk to primary school or nursery).

LalalalalalaLand123 · 03/06/2021 18:13

That's barely anything of a walk! Who are you worried about, the child or the adult?

looptheloopinahulahoop · 03/06/2021 18:13

@Chickenonaperch

I can see why we have a childhood obesity crisis if 30 minutes of walking is considered difficult for any child over 2.
Indeed. The OP should get their 7 year old running their local junior parkrun, if they've got one. 2km is more than one mile, so if they can run 2k they can definitely walk a mile (which is about what you cover in 15 minutes if not keeping pace with a snail).
AGirlsGotToDo · 03/06/2021 18:13

We do 25mins there and 25 mins back. So that should be done easily.

FatCatThinCat · 03/06/2021 18:13

I put YANBU as in you are not being unreasonable to get them to walk that. Looks like everyone else with the same opinion clicked YABU. Ooops.

WellLarDeDar · 03/06/2021 18:13

2x 15 minute walks isn't too far for a 7 year old. It'd do them good I think. Do they have very serious asthma or something that would make it more difficult?

looptheloopinahulahoop · 03/06/2021 18:14

@Acunningruse

I do 20 minutes each way with a 4 year old and 8 year old without issue, just take lots of snacks for the journey home.
Why on earth would you need drinks and snacks on a 15-20 minute walk? I understand the drink on a hot day but otherwise?
partyatthepalace · 03/06/2021 18:14

Of course not. It’s fine for a 7 year old. Will do them good in fact.

WorraLiberty · 03/06/2021 18:16

@Acunningruse

I do 20 minutes each way with a 4 year old and 8 year old without issue, just take lots of snacks for the journey home.
just take lots of snacks for the journey home.

Snacks? Why? Confused

Benjispruce3 · 03/06/2021 18:16

That’s not far at all. Presumably you never walk anywhere. Children adapt. Great opportunity for chats and learning.

MiniTheMinx · 03/06/2021 18:16

Ridiculous. Of course its not too much. My eldest walked 8 miles at 4 years old. Not every day. But he could probably manage that because he used to walk to nursery school 35 minutes each way every day at age 4.

Mamanyt · 03/06/2021 18:18

In the absence of any medical considerations, this is absolutely not too far. In fact, it's probably about 1/4 of what they could do without too much trouble. Kids of 7 are, or should be, non-stop, perpetual motion machines. They play full-out for hours at a time.

Teateaandmoretea · 03/06/2021 18:18

I think this is a sort of reverse where someone has accused the OP of abuse for making a 7 year old walk that far. An ex perhaps?

I think it’s a grandmother being judgy about her grandkids going to a childminder.

Kokosrieksts · 03/06/2021 18:19

Huh? 7 year old shouldn’t struggle to walk for 30 minutes.

cervixuser · 03/06/2021 18:20

unless there is a massive drip feed about illness or disability then I don't understand what the OP is thinking

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