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If you hate your job

218 replies

Redsunrise · 25/05/2021 16:02

Can I ask what you do?

OP posts:
MyCatEatsPrawnCrackers · 25/05/2021 16:19

I have been a Primary School teacher since 1989. Can't stand it anymore so I resigned today.

Devlesko · 25/05/2021 16:21

@MyCatEatsPrawnCrackers

I have been a Primary School teacher since 1989. Can't stand it anymore so I resigned today.
I'm so pleased for you, sounds like you've had enough Thanks
Thirtyrock39 · 25/05/2021 16:22

Nhs Healthcare support worker
I've recently changed rules within the nhs - my old job was easy but a bit boring and no progression, this role is mega stressful and so busy and really challenging patients

Thirtyrock39 · 25/05/2021 16:23

Roles not rules !! It has made me finally decide to apply to do a nursing degree though

ThatChristinaAguileraSong · 25/05/2021 16:23

Secondary school teacher - hate it.

Hobnobsandbroomstick · 25/05/2021 16:23

Nurse. I don't hate my current job, but I hated my last one with such passion that I used to almost fantasise about crashing my car on my commute. The relief when I left my last ever shift there was amazing.

Vooga · 25/05/2021 16:24

NHS admin, so so dull, unfulfilling, and badly managed. I'm leaving in two weeks.

HitsAndMrs · 25/05/2021 16:37

@Hobnobsandbroomstick

Nurse. I don't hate my current job, but I hated my last one with such passion that I used to almost fantasise about crashing my car on my commute. The relief when I left my last ever shift there was amazing.
Oh that's awful. What was your last job? I'm just about to go into NHS as a band 5 physio and I'm so worried, feel like I don't know enough but great to hear you enjoy being a nurse! My worse job was insurance sales, I left but I got sacked as I would tell people they could get it cheaper elsewhere! Felt so immoral.
Flowerclock · 25/05/2021 16:40

Generally any job I have hated has involved speaking to members of the public on a frequent basis. Angry

Thankfully I WFH now and never have to speak to another soul ever unless it is my boss.

wigglerose · 25/05/2021 17:16

When I was a paralegal I hated it. So boring. No career progression. Claustrophobic and cliquey.

readingismycardio · 25/05/2021 17:36

I hated every single customer service job I had. It's soul destroying

Blacktothepink · 25/05/2021 17:38

I hated customer service jobs too.

GooodMythicalMorning · 25/05/2021 18:07

Cleaner. Hate it. Nobody listens to me, I'm constantly given way more jobs than I can actually do and the people who work there aren't particularly nice either. I can't leave though as been applying for jobs for 2 years and nobody wants me.

MaudBaileysGreenTurban · 25/05/2021 18:13

NHS-related but not front-line.

I don't really care enough about my job these days to actively hate it, but I am definitely only going through the motions now. Which is probably worse, tbh.

I am burnt out and badly need to leave.

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 25/05/2021 18:14

My current job is great but I was too exhausted to do nursing anymore and not getting any younger, was completely burnt out so I decided to train as a podiatrist and have done that for the last 15 years, I love it. Never a boring day and same money.
Also you get weekends and bank holidays off and it's 9-5.

SewingWarriorQueen76 · 25/05/2021 18:17

A really specialised environmental job. Since March I have applied for 4 joba, 2 internal, 2 external and am about to apply for about another 6. However, I am not sure that I write the correct lingo to get my application past the sift for interview. It's like I am writing in a totally different way to everyone else.
Hmm, I can see me in dead women's shoes, in the same job for the next 20 years if I can't get the applications right. It's shit.

RattlesnakesUnfold · 25/05/2021 18:27

Front line NHS, I’m burnt out and suffering long covid, and my employer won’t be flexible with hours now the pandemic is ‘over’ (at least until the next wave).

I used to love my job. I’m good at it, efficient, manage my team well.

Now I feel used and taken for granted. When managers needed me in the crisis they agreed to flexible working, now they’ve stripped it away and want to dismiss me on capability grounds (for long covid and another chronic health condition I’ve had for years that caused 2 recent hospital admissions, yet I returned to work the same week I was discharged!)

I rarely took time off, I worked until I was relying on so many painkillers I’d make it through most weeks then get so sick I’d take a few days off the following week. Or I just battled on, using the flexi hours to cope and working into the night on the VPN.

I can’t decide whether to leave via the back door with my dignity or take them to an employment tribunal!

EddieVeddersfoxymop · 25/05/2021 18:30

Teaching assistant, hate it to the very core of my being.

Mummyto293 · 25/05/2021 18:33

I’m a midwife. I love my current job in community . But hated my last job in the hospital . I too would often wish I’d have quite a bad car crash on the way to work (not enough to kill me but enough to put me out of work for a good few months). I was on holiday last summer and 4 days before we were due home I was crying because I knew I’d be back to work soon. I realised then that was no way to live so quit and got a new job. I am so much happier.

hopelessbusiness · 25/05/2021 18:34

Local authority. So boring. Everybody stressing about how busy they were - take away the faffing/mindless bureaucracy/pointless Covid related nonsense and the working day could be condensed into half an hour. Stuck it for 3 months until I found something else. Actually properly have stuff to do now and I love it!

Greysofa · 25/05/2021 18:39

I enjoy my actual job but have been ground down my poor management within a local authority. Appalling people skills, being given more and more tasks on top of an all ready stressful role under the guise of ‘Covid’ regulations all while the management sit at home apparently ‘snowed under’ but no one actually knows what they are doing!

Eeyorehoney · 25/05/2021 18:43

Was a primary school teacher- left now

ThinWomansBrain · 25/05/2021 18:48

Supposed to be a finance business partner - with covid the opportunity to travel to sites substantially diminished. Now have about five times as many projects, and spend 95% of my time locked in a spreadsheet.
That other people use/update from time to time and bugger up all the formulae.

goshthatsawful · 25/05/2021 18:48

@Thirtyrock39

Nhs Healthcare support worker I've recently changed rules within the nhs - my old job was easy but a bit boring and no progression, this role is mega stressful and so busy and really challenging patients
You know nursing will be more stressful and more busy and the responsibility for the challenging patients stops with you?
goshthatsawful · 25/05/2021 18:51

@Mummyto293

I’m a midwife. I love my current job in community . But hated my last job in the hospital . I too would often wish I’d have quite a bad car crash on the way to work (not enough to kill me but enough to put me out of work for a good few months). I was on holiday last summer and 4 days before we were due home I was crying because I knew I’d be back to work soon. I realised then that was no way to live so quit and got a new job. I am so much happier.
What did you hate about the hospital job if you don’t mind me asking?