To want a bidet?

[thisisbull]

I know this is grim but help settle an argument!

We're remodelling the bathroom and I would like a bidet because I have Crohn's disease and frankly when it's awful I can't use too much loo roll so I'm having 10/15 showers a day to feel clean it's either a bidet or a washing loo I need to not feel horrendous.

DH thinks the idea of a bidet is gross and a bum washing loo is ridiculous because they're so expensive but it's something I need to cope with my illness

Aibu to not back down on this and just tell him we're getting a bidet and to grow up?

No hands needed @goshthatsawful.... you can use loo paper to start the job, and then the hose to finish.

No @goshthatsawful I use the bum gun to clean and paper to dry (and check to from is clean)

I definitely don't use my hand

Ooh what a revelation MN is! I’ve just spent a happy few minutes poring over shower bidet manufacturing sites and choosing my new downstairs loo! Thanks all of you!