Should point out that I am currently 38 weeks pregnant so very hormonal and getting to the point of being fed up in general but have spent most of the last night in tears over this!
Dh shouts at me - a lot. He likes things done a certain way and has a very small tolerance for anyone who does anything differently to how he would do something.
He works shifts and is currently on nights this week. This isn't unusual but means during the day I pick up everything around the house including school drop off and pick up for DD(4), wfh still (1 week left) and all the day to day stuff, but I then can't do a lot of washing or tidying up as putting the washing machine/dishwasher on keeps him awake so the house looks like something has exploded in it.
We also have a regular food delivery which comes in the evening. Dh was asleep when it turned up last night. I used to lift the trays into the kitchen and empty them there, but being pregnant at the moment I can't lift them, and understandably the driver cannot carry them in for me. So when the food shop turned up last night, the driver put the trays by the door and I knelt down by them and started unloading the items i the hallway, with DD 'helping'.
Dh was woken up by the shop arriving, came down as I was about half way through the trays, pretty much moved me out of the way and carried the remaining trays into the kitchen, and then once the driver had left proceeded to shout at me for how stupid I had been and looked kneeling down on the floor emptying the trays, how I should have woken him up, made the driver wait and not started until he was up.
He was meant to be out last night playing sport and was only in because it was cancelled due to the weather at earlier that day - so when I challenged him on what he expected me to do if he wasn't there he didn't have an answer.
Later on he was still going on about it at this point I pretty much in tears, and the started picking on some other things that I had done wrong. I just got fed up, so stopped listening, as if I said ok yes won't do it next time he had a go at me, but if I tried to argue or defend myself as to why I did something that way he had a go at me.
when putting DD to bed last night she broke my heart and asked why daddy shouts at me so much!
At that point i needed some space so I went and sorted some washing out that I had managed to put on earlier, and then when I got into the living room, DH moaned that he had been waiting for me to watch our programme before work but now didn't have time!
Just so fed up of feeling like everything I do is wrong when all I try and do is everything for DH & DD and the new arrival!