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AIBU in feeling harassed?

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KungFuPandaWorksOut20 · 17/04/2021 17:00

In the middle of March, RSPCA had knocked on our door. They had a complaint stating an animal was lay in the window not moving they presumed the animal was dead.

Understandably RSPCA came right around. The guy was very amused in finding not a dead dog on the windowsill, but our dog happily sun bathing. My dog gave a half hearted wag of the tail, looked at him and went straight back to sunbathing and watching the world go by.

RSPCA obviously said no more action needed. So imagine my surprise 6 days later when a female RSPCA worker showed up, her attitude was absolutely horrific.

The complaint this time was a lethargic dog on the windowsill with the suspicion of the dog being drugged, because of how unresponsive it was.

I told the Lady she could happily come in and have a look at our dog, just like her colleague had.

She refused and said she can see clearly from the window that the dog looks lethargic, not active and started asking what medication I give the dog that makes him so placid.

I told her he's on no medication, he's sat chilling at the window he's hardly gonna be active when he's lay down! She told me I need to hand over the dogs vet details, and she will discuss everything with my vet, and she can do monthly check ins with my vet making sure my dogs condition improves.


I told her he had no condition, she has no right to my dogs vet records and I will not be handing them over or giving consent. She told me that's suspicious and I would make it easier on myself by giving consent, if not she will get the police to return with her, so she can remove the dog!


I told her conversation was over with, I will happily deal with another colleague but not her, I also phoned RSPCA notifying them of this, and began the complaints procedure online in regards to her.


Thursday we went out for a walk with the dog, when returning home we had missed a calling card from the RSPCA. We called, and they said the inspector on the case will call back.

It was the first gentlemen from last time, he informed us the same complaint had been put in again but apparently the complainer had gone to the window to illicit a response from him and nothing.

They had placed 4 calls within the space of 2 days, and several photos of the dog asleep on the windowsill.

He sounded apologetic, but explained his hands are tied and he can't just close the case like the past 2 times, due to the amount of phone calls and photos sent across.

He claims RSPCA sent the photos over to an independent vet and the vet is showing concern over the "lethargic demeanor" he is displaying in the photos.


He has asked for us to book him into the vets ASAP and give him the report and then he can mark this down as malicious for a year.


I'm really horrified at the thought of someone coming into my garden taking photos through my living room window.


My issue isn't with the RSPCA they are just doing their job, it's whoever is doing this. He confirmed it was the same caller!


I honestly don't know why they are being malicious and acting like this. My anxiety has been sky high since finding out, is someone watching my house? How often are they coming into my garden taking photos? Do they get photos of Myself, two children and DN?

It's not like he barks, my Husband has worked from home since the start of the pandemic. So that is definitely ruled out.


My husband has suggested just stopping him from being on the front windowsill but in my opinion that doesn't solve the issue at all!


We are looking into getting cameras, but is that even legal someone taking photos through my window? Or am I being dramatic and someone is just trying to do a good deed.

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Aprilshowersandhail · 21/04/2021 15:00

Have you got a name for the rspca officer? Have you Googled her?
She could be someone you recognise has a grudge.. Or be fake altogether..

cabingirl · 21/04/2021 16:42

They are probably waiting to hear back from the RSPCA or after already taking photos once, what more could they show with new photos?

I'd make sure the camera is covering your whole garden not just the window. If it really is a malicious report rather than an overzealous animal lover then they might do something else on your property.

Muminabun · 21/04/2021 16:56

I don’t think the caller realises that dogs sleep a lot between 12 and 16 hours a day. I have two elderly dogs and a young dog that is very lazy and the amount they sleep is incredible.

makingmammaries · 21/04/2021 17:34

I had a similar experience. It was a young animal rights activist who lives nearby, who claimed that one of our dogs was terrorized by the others, had no access to shelter, and that none of them had food or water. Our dogs are just fine, thank you, and absolutely don’t need the junk food that she kept tossing over the fence at them. But she managed to get an animal charity to come round and make far-fetched accusations. I decided to document the whole thing by emailing them, refuting their accusations and pointing out I was in a good position to defend my interests if they really wanted a court case. I also put up screening so that nobody could snoop around my dogs.

OP, I’d get that vet’s report but I would not be providing it to the RSPCA - I wouldn’t want them to know who my vet was, or anything else. Just keep it on hand in case they show up with the police, which seems unlikely to me. If you buy dog food online, download the receipts and whatever else you may have to prove that doggo is properly cared for. And get the window film that others have suggested.

Speakeasy · 21/04/2021 17:42

OP the RSPCA are a nasty and vindictive organisation. If you have a relative or friend willing to look after your dog and any other animals you have then move them ASAP.

Get a voice recorder and record everything that they say to you. Do not tell them you are recording them.

Someone put the website of The SHG up. You need to ring them and talk to them. They deal with this sort of nonsense from the RSPCA all the time. Their number is 07449989411.

Definitely ring the police and tell them that someone is coming into your garden and taking photos through your window. Tell them you are frightened. You don't know what they will do next. Maybe break in or attack you.

But whatever you do, make sure you phone The SHG.

DameEdnasNeighbourhoodWatch · 21/04/2021 18:52

Have you checked the settings of the camera ? With my ring doorbell, there are options to change the sensitivities so it doesn't alarm for everyone walking past - I have it set so it only notifies me for people actually on the doorstep.

BlueDahlia69 · 21/04/2021 19:37

@Speakeasy

OP the RSPCA are a nasty and vindictive organisation. If you have a relative or friend willing to look after your dog and any other animals you have then move them ASAP.

Get a voice recorder and record everything that they say to you. Do not tell them you are recording them.

Someone put the website of The SHG up. You need to ring them and talk to them. They deal with this sort of nonsense from the RSPCA all the time. Their number is 07449989411.

Definitely ring the police and tell them that someone is coming into your garden and taking photos through your window. Tell them you are frightened. You don't know what they will do next. Maybe break in or attack you.

But whatever you do, make sure you phone The SHG.



omg


good advice here OP.
KungFuPandaWorksOut20 · 21/04/2021 20:00

@Speakeasy

OP the RSPCA are a nasty and vindictive organisation. If you have a relative or friend willing to look after your dog and any other animals you have then move them ASAP.

Get a voice recorder and record everything that they say to you. Do not tell them you are recording them.

Someone put the website of The SHG up. You need to ring them and talk to them. They deal with this sort of nonsense from the RSPCA all the time. Their number is 07449989411.

Definitely ring the police and tell them that someone is coming into your garden and taking photos through your window. Tell them you are frightened. You don't know what they will do next. Maybe break in or attack you.

But whatever you do, make sure you phone The SHG.

I have sent you a PM.


Dame I have got the sensitivity up to the highest and got all the detection zones activated. Thank you though.
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BlueDahlia69 · 21/04/2021 20:47

Glad you are getting good support OP 🌸

Puppycuddlesarebest · 22/04/2021 07:45

KungFuPandaWorksOut20 in regard to your RSPCA problem, you must contact the police immediately and inform them that they are trespassing and taking photos through your window that is upsetting you. Preferably contact the chief constable direct with the complaint, as if you don't the RSPCA will get the police to apply for a warrant and invade your home, and seize your dog. I hate to sound dramatic, but this is what they do, so you need to be careful.

thetemptationofchocolate · 22/04/2021 10:02

Yes, please look at the SHG site. There is some advice on there re. giving RSPCA permission to get your vet records, i.e. don't do it as this would then make it impossible for your vet to appear as a witness on your behalf (apparently) should they end up taking you to court.

CoraPirbright · 23/04/2021 15:02

Was watching ddog passed out on the lawn soaking up the sunshine and thought I’d check in on you, OP. Any luck with the camera?

AngelDelightUk · 23/04/2021 18:10

Hope you’ve managed to spy on them by now!

Spicedlatte · 23/04/2021 21:14

Any update OP? If they think a sleeping, sunbathing dog looks alarming then they've obviously never seen a sunbathing hen . . Grin

Aprilshowersandhail · 23/04/2021 21:28

Sunbathing chickens are an afternoon's entertainment ime!!

KungFuPandaWorksOut20 · 24/04/2021 17:36

Still nothing 🤔 nobody has even looked in my window! This private investigator lifestyle isn't as thrilling as they make out in movies.

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SchrodingersImmigrant · 24/04/2021 17:38

😂

Yup. They read mumsnet

RandomMess · 24/04/2021 17:58

My Ddog rolled off the bed 2 days running this week. Seems she is incapable of scratching her back whilst simultaneously sunbathing. Not the brightest.

BlueDahlia69 · 24/04/2021 20:14

@KungFuPandaWorksOut20

Still nothing 🤔 nobody has even looked in my window! This private investigator lifestyle isn't as thrilling as they make out in movies.



be vigilant OP.. they won't be able to help themselves ... sounds personal so they will be back..
MinnieKat · 27/04/2021 16:13

Any update OP?

greeneyedlulu · 06/05/2021 16:35

@KungFuPandaWorksOut20 any update?

Danni91 · 14/05/2021 06:40

Did they ever come back OP?

KungFuPandaWorksOut20 · 22/05/2021 18:06

Case is dropped! Provided a vet report, if any reports are made within the next 12 months they will be marking it down as malicious.


My vet was quite bemused as she has dealt with RSPCA cases in her career, but had never had the allegation of a drugged up dog used as decoration in the front window!

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CloverHilla · 22/05/2021 18:18

Yay! Delighted to hear that OP. I remember reading this & thinking at the time - WTF is wrong with some people. Is it likely that it is someone local (neighbour?) who is being malicious? As it looks like the camera has definitely put them off.

PinkSatinMoon · 23/05/2021 03:43

Fantastic news OP 🎉

Good on you for fighting back 🌸💕

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