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If I walked into your office carrying this bag

435 replies

QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 15:03

What would your first thought be? Too loud? Too big? Great bag to fit everything in?

www.katespade.co.uk/en-gb/handbags/spade-flower-jacquard-everything-stripe-large-tote/PXRUB272.html?dwcolor=BLUE-MULTI#start=1

I’ve disabled voting- hope that works

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TakeYourFinalPosition · 16/04/2021 15:22

@Inapanini My apologies, I didn't click, I used the preview and it didn't show Blush

Sacredspace · 16/04/2021 15:23

I’d think it very stylish indeed. I think you might need a fairly plain dress/suit but could wear a lovely necklace or perhaps a silk scarf.

QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 15:23

@radiateforme - I didn’t say be untruthful

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beginningoftheend · 16/04/2021 15:23

I wouldn't care or comment, I don't have an opinion on what other people wear really.

FourTeaFallOut · 16/04/2021 15:23

I'd be disappointed if you didn't pull out a mirror and a hat stand and didn't go home on a flying umbrella.

ShirleyPhallus · 16/04/2021 15:24

It looks like that really dated designer who had stuff about 2007. I can’t remember the name but sort of 60s prints? Same era as Radley 😷

It’s not a nice bag but it’s pretty much invisible, I wouldn’t comment on it but definitely wouldn’t buy it

QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 15:24

Okay dropping this one/ I’ll carry on looking for another bag which would fit all my work stuff- which seems to be a bit of a pain.

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Justmuddlingalong · 16/04/2021 15:24

It's a pickpocketer's dream.

QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 15:25

@FourTeaFallOut yes I think I should go for the entire ensemble!!! 😂😂😂

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ImAlrightThanx · 16/04/2021 15:28

I honestly wouldn't notice, care or think anything.

PrelovedWithValue · 16/04/2021 15:29

I wouldn't be paying any attention to what bag you were carrying.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 16/04/2021 15:31

I wouldn't notice it. It's a perfectly OK bag. If you then told me what it cost, I might drop dead from shock, but I never have understood paying £££ for a bag.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 16/04/2021 15:32

Nobody would even look or comment.

SausageDogSandwich · 16/04/2021 15:32

I like it. It's the type of bag I would use but there is no way on earth I would pay that for it!!!

Cocomarine · 16/04/2021 15:34

I have zero fucks to give about anyone else’s handbag choices.

murbblurb · 16/04/2021 15:35

had another look at the website, before the irritating music made me close it. Doesn't fasten, handles are too short to carry it easily unless you also are really short and there's a lot of tatty twiddly bits which add extra weight.

so as an item for carrying things around, it is a bit shit.

LaBellina · 16/04/2021 15:35

Tbh I think it’s very ‘American’. I imagine a woman with a very styled blonde bob, wearing sunglasses and pink lipstick wearing this bag who walks in and says goodmornin’ ya all Grin

cookiecreampie · 16/04/2021 15:36

I don't like it, don't think it's horrible but it's just not my taste. I wouldn't think anything if I saw someone with it.

Chicchicchicchiclana · 16/04/2021 15:36

I don't think I have ever noticed anyone's handbag in 58 years.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 16/04/2021 15:37

Well if you were George Clooney, I would be a little taken aback but I wouldn't say anything.

PussGirl · 16/04/2021 15:37

I don't particularly like it myself but it's hardly garish.

I'd probably notice it the first time I saw it but then not after that.

intheenddoesitreallymatter · 16/04/2021 15:38

I’d glance up at you, almost certainly not register your bag at all, on the off chance I did would think ‘boujee’ and then most likely forget you and the bag ever existed.

If you like it, get it, life is too short to give a shite what other people think!

Caneloalvarez · 16/04/2021 15:38

I actually prefer the other colourway (green/pink) i think the blue bag makes it look more beachy/casual. Id wear it with jeans white t shirt / white trainers, I don't think it would suit more formal work outfits. Seems like you're on the fence about this one anyway, post a few more links of one's that really grab your attention! :) And whats your usual work wardrobe like?

SEE123 · 16/04/2021 15:39

I'd think it's probably clashing with whatever you wore it with tbh
Sorry OP, really not keen. Spending that much I'd want something a bit more "classic" that I could wear with anything.

Practically, it also looks like it would be v. heavy as soon as you started filling it up, and the handles are hideous.
I think you could get a much much nicer bag for the same money,

But the main thing is that you like it? Are there any other options?

Isthereaduckinthehouse · 16/04/2021 15:39

I wouldn't notice it really, but if I did I would be a bit judgey about your gaudy taste. I prefer timeless elegance rather than retro fads. I might also suspect that you hadn't a clue and that you got it down the market for a fiver.