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If I walked into your office carrying this bag

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QuietBatPeople1 · 16/04/2021 15:03

What would your first thought be? Too loud? Too big? Great bag to fit everything in?

www.katespade.co.uk/en-gb/handbags/spade-flower-jacquard-everything-stripe-large-tote/PXRUB272.html?dwcolor=BLUE-MULTI#start=1

I’ve disabled voting- hope that works

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BlueCherryBlossom · 17/04/2021 16:18

@Isthereaduckinthehouse

In teens and twenties when I was a student I was renowned for wearing hats. Now I'm renowned for my shoes. I dress terribly conservatively for my age when I'm at work, but I express a subtle hint at my wilder side via shoes usually. There is usually someone who will comment on my new shoes when I buy them, even men!! It usually catches me off guard as I'm really not buying them for them to be admired by Nancy or Norris in the office. I buy them as I like them and I like what I see in the mirror.

I totally get the desire for a statement piece. Ordinarily something like the hemline of a skirt, a ver ver expensive blazer or something else such as shoes or an unusual handbag. I just think that for the price of that handbag it is not worth the money as nobody would notice it, least of all yourself. It's boring and forgettable.

Wise words.

QuietBatPeople1 · 17/04/2021 17:44

@Isthereaduckinthehouse you are right - I like a statement price and usually go for shoes or handbags...but this is not the one.

I’ll continue to score the internet as not very comfortable going into London or the shops just yet.

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Saracen · 17/04/2021 23:44

Just an ordinary baggish sort of bag. I would pay it no attention until you began to pull standard lamps and all sorts out of it.

BlueTiles · 18/04/2021 10:57

@FranklinTennessee

I’ve just re clicked the link and it’s showing me a very different bag to when I looked at it yesterday. Yesterday it was a wicker bag, today it’s a much nicer large tote with flowers on. Others mentioned a beach bag and wicker yesterday so maybe this has happened to others. The first bag really wasn’t very nice, the second bag I like, although still not sure of ethics at KS.
How funny, if everyone has been commenting on different bags. Grin
wesowereonabreak · 18/04/2021 12:11

Only bag I have seen from the link!

If I walked into your office carrying this bag
Mumoblue · 18/04/2021 12:12

Well NOW I’d think “fucking hell that bag is £350!!”
But otherwise I think it looks fine. I’m not particularly fashion conscious though.

Arrowheart · 18/04/2021 12:15

It is just a bag. A nice bag. I wouldn't think anything other than that. I'm a bit confused that people think it's a beach bag. Do these people wear business attire to the beach?

sunnydaleslayer · 18/04/2021 12:19

If I'd known how much you'd spent on it I'd think you were mad but other than the price it's a nice bag.

lostitall · 18/04/2021 16:50

@Arrowheart

It is just a bag. A nice bag. I wouldn't think anything other than that. I'm a bit confused that people think it's a beach bag. Do these people wear business attire to the beach?
Same doesn't look anything like a beach bag to me. After the first few replies I was expecting to see a hideous straw monstrosity
Homer28 · 18/04/2021 16:53

I think it’s beautiful OP - I really like it 😊

SelkieIntegrated · 18/04/2021 18:01

Top tip @QuietBatPeople1 next time, head up your thread FAO bag lovers

GreyhoundG1rl · 18/04/2021 18:04

@SelkieIntegrated

Top tip *@QuietBatPeople1* next time, head up your thread FAO bag lovers
Why? Will all bag lovers love that bag?
QuietBatPeople1 · 18/04/2021 18:05

@SelkieIntegrated yes I should have! Also add to the title that ‘if you are easily irritated by a bag please do not read further’

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peak2021 · 18/04/2021 18:12

I wouldn't notice given I wfh currently. Though it's expensive for what it is.

SelkieIntegrated · 18/04/2021 21:22

No of course not all bag lovers will love the same bag but they won't be quite so shocked at spending a few pounds on a bag, just cos you love it!

@quietbatpeople1 , I did a bag thread just before Christmas and it was making me laugh by the end of the thread, posters were tripping over themselves to come up with the most insulting thing they could possibly say about the bag!

Flowers24 · 18/04/2021 21:31

Wouldn't even notice!

CommandoDog · 18/04/2021 22:20

I like it - interesting without looking bling.

Melodieunchained · 18/04/2021 22:25

I don't mind it. Was expecting something hideous tbh.

Though the price is obscene.

itbemay1 · 18/04/2021 22:36

@balloonsintrees

This is a practical work bag with a twist...I do collect handbags so much prefer interest rather than just a name (also TK Maxx & Brand Alley have tons of decent bags to choose from)
That's lovely! Is it lulu Guineas?
GreyhoundG1rl · 18/04/2021 22:38

@SelkieIntegrated

No of course not all bag lovers will love the same bag but they won't be quite so shocked at spending a few pounds on a bag, just cos you love it!

@quietbatpeople1 , I did a bag thread just before Christmas and it was making me laugh by the end of the thread, posters were tripping over themselves to come up with the most insulting thing they could possibly say about the bag!

But some bags are just shit, the price tag doesn't make them interesting. The price makes them funny, some of them, tbh.
SelkieIntegrated · 18/04/2021 22:40

In your opinion. There is no final verdict on a bag

GreyhoundG1rl · 18/04/2021 22:43

No, of course there isn't.

GreyhoundG1rl · 18/04/2021 22:44

When lots of people denounce something as a granny bag, though, doesn't it put you off?

CommandoDog · 18/04/2021 22:54

@SelkieIntegrated

Agree that the first few posts set the tone for a wdyt thread.
Everytime!
Viviennemary · 18/04/2021 23:02

I'd think bring me a pair of sunglasses. Very loud. I'd think why is a rock chick or footballers wife being employed in my office.

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